When a woman goes from wanting a specific man’s attention to enjoying male attention in general, something special is lost about her. You see, for all a woman’s talk of monogamy, purity and exclusivity, the cultivation of a field of male attention is a type of emotional promiscuity, for where there was a purity of yearning for a specific man, there is now the vanity of desiring male attention in general, and spiritually using them to gratify herself.
This is not clean.
The female equivalent of sleeping around is to cultivate and bask in the attention of many men she knows desire her and retain a plausible deniability about it all, rather than keep herself unavailable and imperceptible to all but the man she has chosen. A woman who emotionally feeds on various men to bolster her own felt sense of self-importance is spiritually impure. It is absolutely not the kind of behaviour you engage in to prepare yourself for a husband, and is a dishonour to whatever man may eventually fulfil that role.