In August of 1998 Singapore's Prime Minister Goh Chok Tong delivered an address to the Nation.
It was for that year's National Day Rally, an event roughly equivalent to a U.S. President's State of the Union Address.
As you might expect from the description above, National Day Rally addresses usually involve the PM speaking to the nation about its challenges and opportunities.
1998 was different.
When Goh spoke, Southeast Asia was in the middle of a financial crisis. Apart from Singapore, most of the countries in the region were on the verge of economic collapse, taking IMF loans to stay afloat. Singapore itself was not unaffected, but had put financial safeguards in place that sheltered it from the worst of the contagion. This left it in the position to extend loans to worse-hit countries.
Indonesia in particular was reeling from the damage. It, a country of 211 million people, had stretched itself too far with leverage. When its currency started collapsing, it needed a lifeline. Tiny Singapore, a neighboring country with a relatively strong economy but just three million people, was a natural partner.
However, prior to Goh's address, Indonesia's Prime Minister B.J. Habibe had disparaged Singapore, after Goh had been perceived as too late giving Habibe a congratulatory call on his recent election win.
Regarding the supposedly late call, Habibe said:
"It's O.K. with me, but there are 211 million people [in Indonesia]. Look at that map. All the green is Indonesia. And that red dot is Singapore. Look at that." The tone of the remarks was insulting, and arguably vaguely threatening.
Well, when Goh got up to speak on National Day, he was having none of it. His speech bordered on a diss track, calling out neighboring countries on their financial problems and musing on how much Singapore could help out. He took advantage of the opportunity to fire back at Indonesia's PM, saying:
"Singapore will help Indonesia within the limits of our ability. We are a small economy... After all we are only three million people. Just a little red dot on the map. Where is the capacity to help 211 million people?"
In the end, Singapore came through with a $5 billion loan facility for Indonesia. Goh did not take the low road, but he could have, and he let Habibe know it.
Today, Habibe's "Little Red Dot" insult is a badge of honor among Singaporeans; a nickname for their country they use with pride, it being featured prominently in the official logo for Singapore's 2015 independence day celebrations.
This little story contains a lesson:
Don't assume somebody can be disrespected because he is smaller than you. There are strengths other than size. Insult someone who seems irrelevant or unassuming or mild mannered, if you wish, but don't be surprised if you're denied a loan later... or at least left sweating over whether you'll receive one, in any case.