Women are far more simple and easier to understand once you remove every shard of well meaning egalitarianism from your mind that women = men who think, feel, have the same goals as men. You can literally mold women to your will if you understand that the main mechanism is through her emotions/validation of her identity and purpose.
It's very easy: react very positively and earnestly to when she's doing something you want. All she wants is to be seen and praised for her work, whatever it is. This has to be done almost daily and is not a one-off affair, although don't overdo it. The surprise effect is what you're looking for as this gives women the most efficient, "truest" signal of your will: your actual thoughts of her when you're not performing. Women live in the now, men in the future.
React less positively when she's doing something you don't like. Difference between, "Great job babe, couldn't have done it without you!" and "Pretty good, love." Think of her like a very well loved puppy: when she does something you like, excessively praise and reward her without a hint of irony. When she doesn't, lessen the praise/positivity; she'll get the hint and she'll especially appreciate you doing so in a considerate way. Majority of women's issues is your "tone". This is what she's talking about.
Much like a puppy, if you act negatively, they don't immediately understand why, the simply develop a fear or an "ick" aka avoidance via negative experiences. Do not react negatively or she will see it as an attack on her, get self-conscious, and then get extremely defensive and you've basically enforced a bad behavior that you must break at some point or she'll harbor it forever. Negative reactions, coupled with absence of any positive reinforcement, should be rare and reserved when you absolutely do not want her to do something. Like committing suicide or killing her children.
This is why weak beta simp men are absolutely deleterious to any society and should have minimal access to women, because they easily undo the hard work of strong men's guidance and loving stewardship over women much like an abused/neglected/untrained dog with no purpose will lash out and be antisocial/aggressive towards people/children.
The Greek historian Plutarch once recounted a story of how young women began to commit suicide in the city of Miletus.
It was as if the attention that a woman would receive by hanging herself drove them to continue doing so.
Finally, a law was passed declaring that any woman who killed herself would have her naked body dragged through the streets before being buried.
And lo and behold, the mass psychosis of women killing themselves stopped almost overnight.
This tweet is not about events in an Anatolian city state 2,000 years ago.