here’s the tik tok for anyone wondering
jasmine 🦋@jasmiliano
Sep 26
Theres a tik tok stating that black men are hard to love & I agree 😭

Sep 26, 2026 · 11:11 PM UTC

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She didn’t lie one bit.
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meh. for me, i don’t particularly agree. it’s too sweeping of a statement. with every bad there is good
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
I can't agree with this. It speaks to a limited perspective, which I cannot fault the author for. It simply isn't an objective truth, and I can't blame any person for interpreting matters of the heart this way. True for her, not for me.
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i think she’s talking on a “kind” of person that’s hard to love and it’s one who hasn’t really figured themselves out, we’re all unfinished projects though. she’s speaking from a place of disappointment which is valid to her experiences i guess
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
bell hooks will to change and all about love….
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a good read ! <3
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
listening to the tiktok & hearing all of you agree with these gross generalizations and reduction of your own personhood to your uterus 😭 shit is nasty
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
I’m so tired. The least desired female demographic on earth constantly telling us they don’t want us as if somebody else want them
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
I’ll never understand why Black people choose to come on social media and publicly bash each other. I never see this from any other race.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Least married demographic always yapping about some bullshit. Nobody has anything good to say about black bitches, not one race of man.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
She should make a video on what makes her easy to love instead
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
She’s been proven right simply by the comments of the guilty party😂🤷🏾‍♀️
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
They are in the comments proving her right 🌚 they lack accountability, self awareness & growth.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Speaking on the majority of black men based on one’s own personal experience or second hand knowledge of the few that she knows is just disingenuous and flawed comprehension. Thinking this crazy but posting it is worrisome and to think you make sense on the majority…SMDH
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
No way shorty said “my uterus is the table” but talking sh!t about black men and people on my media are agreeing saying points were made it’s no way mud 🕊️
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
She said a whole lot of nothing. Lots of projection.
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So “I bring my uterus to the table” = nothing, “black men come with stipulations” = good black men have standards. Noted. We have 0 problems wifing up Rebecca or Lin 😂🫡
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Everybody is triggered at truth. I live in the south side of Africa. I don't even know her yet she's speaking a truth I can definitely relate to.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
In an ideal world, do I want a partner? Yes, without a doubt. However, every single day I am reminded on this app that choosing to be single is one of the best decisions I have ever made in my life and I just can’t stress this enough.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Yea she got that “I wanna white zaddy” tone all in her voice
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I know it's not a black girl talking. Most white man don't even want you like that,you're just a sex kink to them. That's why slave masters would just sleep with you but not take you out of slavey,because you're just literally a dark secret.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
How black men hard to love but black women constantly bashing black men when they get any other woman that’s not black? Those woman are able to love, but a black woman cant?
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
I think people need to move out their state and just talk to people. There’s too much people in the United States to just put one demographic in a bubble.
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Black Men Go Where Your Appreciated Black Love & Black Unity is Dead Slavery, Feminism, Pimp Rap, Stripper Rap, Toxic R&B, Drugs, Alcohol, Child Support, Gender Wars, Religion Wars, FBA, w/ a little Papoose & Remy sprinkled on top. We Gave Those People What They Wanted
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
keep this bullshit in south africa
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Genuinely if black women don’t start calling out other black women for doing this bullshit we should just abandon them
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Nutella men >>>>>
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
so glad the women in my family doesn't feed into tiktok babble. they actually have a brain, who you date is a reflection of self
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
Her only quality is her "uterus"😂😂😂 Half the world population has a uterus, she's not special. The very same generalizations she put on black men, could be put on black women and a stalemate is reached.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
I can already tell what kind of men you have dealt with by this stupid ass video
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I like how she said they are “hard to love” instead of “we can’t love”. They don’t appreciate when we try so hard.
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Replying to @BALUCIAGA
So, I guess BW are just lovable and agreeable vessels of god, with gentle mother tongues that speak life into their communities……right…..
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it’s also the belief that someone will accept me as I am and I don’t have to change or work on myself and they are right, there are women out there who will accept all the mess.
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But its "misogynoir" if a black man generalizes black women. Aite bet war it is.
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No Accountability But it’s always Our Fault
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This sound exactly like black women tbh
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