The problem starts with their mentality towards relationship. You spend so much on women who don't do anything for you, and expect them to be loyal to you BECAUSE of money.
But it doesn't work that way. Many of these women don't even like the men they are dating, they are just there for the money. They say it themselves.
There are faithful women. These women are not faithful to you because of anything you do. They can't just share their body with a random person. Their faithfulness is about their own value system, not even about you.
Sex for them is a big deal and they will only have it with someone they are committed to. They don't even have casual sex when they are single because they can't give their body to someone they are not committed to. They also have respect for their relationship and the person they are dating, so their boundaries are tight and they leave no room for a third party. It gets stronger if she sees sex as spiritual and soul tie.
Interestingly, these loyal ones that never cheat are true lovers that give all of themselves to the relationship - including their finances. They are there to love and be loved, not there to take like thief.
I don't blame the people doubting you. They just don't have the experience. As a society, we need to do better because the rate of unfaithfulness is crazy. Even if you've erred in the past, you can do better. Your partner deserves all of you to themselves.
Women will agree with you in the comments but don't mistake that for them being faithful. You have to find that woman out there by yourself through righteous and diligent vetting.
My greatest shock this morning is people calling me “dodoyo” and “a fool” because I said I dated a girl for 4 years and she never cheated. 😂😂
I’m not bothered. I’m more concerned about how damaged we are as men and how we view women today.
We don’t think loyal women exist anymore. This generation is fucked lol.