You don’t have to be a fighter or even confrontational to defend yourself. Yes the aggressor is weak, a bully but someone who allows people to do whatever to them is also weak. Bullies never stop being bullies until their energy is matched . People will continue to take abuse you
A lot of y’all fail to understand that not everyone is a fighter. Someone who’s been assaulted shouldn’t be perceived as weak simply because they chose not to fight back. Being attacked does not obligate anyone to respond with violence. The shame belongs to the aggressor, not the victim.