Our world of the ego is as far removed from the world of love as Earth is from Mars. That is precisely why it is so difficult for people to find love. Someone who truly strives for love is like an inhabitant of two different planets: in a state of love, they breathe and think differently than in a state of ego. Transitioning from ego to love is a complex task requiring both knowledge and effort. Yet, over the next hundred years, everyone will have to learn how to do this.
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Everyone lacks love. For centuries, people believed that love would one day happen to them. Books were written and films made about love. People strove to become wealthy, successful, and attractive, hoping this would help them find love in life. Yet, love remained a fantasy found only in books and movies, absent from real life. We have now reached a time when the world has stopped believing in love and is turning away from it. As love fades, the drive to achieve success or be attractive loses its meaning. Modern individuals live for the moment, fail to grasp the meaning of life, and are increasingly forced to suppress an inner void. This lack of purpose creates tension. Sooner or later, humanity must acknowledge that life is meaningless without love. Yet, to realize love, one must understand that it cannot simply appear out of nowhere; it must be created. And since every person is different, the path to love is unique for everyone. Some love neither themselves nor others. Others love only themselves. Still others love others but receive no love in return. In all these cases, the individual fails to find the love that would truly fulfill them. Consequently, they fall into depression, turn to drugs or alcohol, and become self-destructive. Only mutual love can truly fulfill a person. Yet, it is something that must be learned. Love is a system comprising several stages of development. Only when people establish this system and begin to practice it will they attain the state of fulfillment they have always sought but did not know how to achieve. The time has come for the knowledge of how to attain love to be revealed.
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Christ did not sacrifice Himself so that people would blindly follow Him. The meaning of His sacrifice was for people, by grasping the significance of His experience, to build a world in which love would become a natural part of human life rather than an act of self-sacrifice, as was the custom in the past.
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God is just because He is impartial. To comprehend God, one must possess the capacity for absolute impartiality and be free from the desire to please people. People always strive to obtain what interests them at any given moment. If justice conflicts with their desires, they reject and condemn it. Therefore, every person is compelled to choose between God and people. If you choose the approval of others, you will have to compromise on justice. If, however, you choose God and justice, you must relinquish the desire to please people. Attempting to reconcile the two will only lead to confusion. By recognizing the contradiction between God and people, you can resolve your inner conflict, learning to choose between justice and success based on what you need most.
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People hate those who are better, more beautiful, wealthier, smarter, or kinder than themselves. Hatred is a refusal to grow. A hateful person directs their efforts not toward self-improvement, but toward destroying the achievements of others. Hatred is a manifestation of self-rejection and a subconscious drive toward self-destruction. Hatred is contagious and spreads through contact with those who harbor it. There are many examples of entire nations being consumed by hatred and destroyed. To avoid becoming infected by hatred, one must recognize its danger and distance oneself from those who hate. Hatred is cured by acknowledging the evil within oneself and transforming one's own character.
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Many people fail to find happiness because they reject the very knowledge capable of making them happy; they approach the learning process with a purely consumerist mindset, expecting to derive pleasure from it. Such people view the teacher as a "vendor of happiness" and happiness itself as a "commodity"; if the "product" is not to their liking, they simply refuse to buy it. Yet the truth is that the knowledge capable of bringing happiness often lacks superficial appeal, whereas knowledge that seems attractive cannot, in reality, bestow happiness. What, then, is the solution? One must change one’s perspective on the learning process, viewing it not as a source of pleasure but rather as a medical procedure: costly and unpleasant, yet vital. Otherwise, achieving true happiness will simply prove impossible.
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The nature of truth is such that the moment it encounters the slightest misunderstanding, disagreement, or judgment, it immediately vanishes. Truth appears only where it is fully accepted, needed, and valued.
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Belief in God means understanding that there is something you do not know and that you must learn.
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All global catastrophes have occurred because people refused to accept the signs of help sent by God; the more stubbornly they rejected this aid, the greater the scale of the catastrophe became. A significant group of people, at least a thousand individuals, must emerge who are capable of recognizing and accepting God’s help in time, thereby saving themselves. Then, following their example, others will be able to see their error, understand the nature of these catastrophes, and learn how to prevent them. Until such a group appears, catastrophes will inevitably continue to occur.
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There comes a moment in a person's life when their established way of living no longer satisfies them, and to continue living a fulfilling life, they must change. If a person resolves to put in significant effort and undergoes a transformation, they will be rewarded, and their life will become even better than before. However, if they give in to laziness and arrogance, they will begin to destroy themselves and lose everything they once possessed.
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If you aspire to a good life, do not follow the crowd. Collective attempts to improve life are doomed to failure, for the masses are incapable of casting aside their selfishness, and while clinging to it, a good life is impossible. Only the individual is capable of renouncing ego and defying conventional norms. Find someone who has shed their selfishness and learned to love, and follow them. Those around you will judge or mock you, urging you to persist in a selfish path; they will revile your mentor and try to dissuade you from your desire for transformation. You may leave these people behind, but do not forsake your teacher, for only he can help you emerge from darkness into the light.
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The more a person develops, the more love for others grows within them. Yet, as this capacity to love deepens, they increasingly encounter misunderstanding, indifference, or aggression from those they love. Typically, when faced with the rejection of their love, a person experiences stress, loses self-confidence, becomes disillusioned with others, and loses both the desire and the ability to grow, causing their life to devolve into a meaningless routine. This is precisely the root cause of so much disharmony in the world. The problem lies in the fact that a person does not realize beforehand that their growing openness to the world will trigger such a reaction. If they possessed knowledge about love and its rejection, and understood the right way to approach them, their life would unfold much more happily. At this stage of the world's development, the most important step for those striving for harmony is to seek the knowledge of how best to navigate the path of growth and reach *a state of constant love*. The more people who possess this knowledge, the more fulfilling their lives will be, and the more harmonious the world will become.
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If a person strives to love life and draw closer to God, they must create a private space for love and know how to keep it hidden from the world. For the world lives in constant struggle and demands proof of one’s superiority over others, whereas love withdraws from those who demand proof of success or happiness.
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When people need God’s help, they wait and hope for Him to come to them. It is a mistake to view God as a delivery man who shows up whenever he is called; He is unlikely to want to come to people on such terms. And even if God were to come, they would reject Him the moment their need for Him passed. Throughout a person’s life, God comes many times to offer something important, but when He is rejected, He departs. If people truly wish to receive God’s help, they must learn to accept Him when *He* comes to *them*, rather than waiting for the moment they decide to come to Him. But how does one accept someone for whom one feels no need? Only through love and understanding, by realizing that if one fails to accept God when He comes, He may never return.
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Humans differ from animals in their desire to live a better life; this desire drives human existence and development. However, the problem arises when a desire is satisfied. Once fulfilled, a desire ceases to bring pleasure, leaving the person feeling empty and disillusioned. Consequently, many people fear fulfilling their desires and choose to suppress them. Yet, suppression hinders personal growth and also leads to suffering. The time has come to learn how to relate to our desires correctly so that they yield only positive results. To achieve this, one must approach desires consciously, understanding the underlying motives, knowing how to fulfill a desire without harming oneself or others, and anticipating the consequences of that fulfillment. In other words, one needs a "roadmap for desire" to avoid proceeding blindly. By doing so, a person can free themselves from suffering, as the root cause of all suffering in the world lies in an unconscious attitude toward desires and a lack of understanding regarding their true nature.
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A lie is a fabricated fact that does not correspond to reality. A lie vanishes in the presence of truth and emerges where truth is absent. A lie is temporary and leads to self-destruction. A lie attracts people who neither understand nor sense the truth. A lie is founded on blind faith, a lack of experience, and unproven facts. Truth is a fact that accords with the law of existence. Truth is eternal, just as the law of existence is. Knowledge of the truth is the result of intellectual and emotional engagement, during which a person compares facts, draws conclusions, and becomes capable of distinguishing truth from falsehood. The more a person develops their capacity for thought and feeling, the more they understand the truth, and the less they are burdened by the fears, insecurities, and suffering spawned by lies.
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Goodness, truth, and love bring a person happiness, whereas evil, falsehood, and hatred destroy them. Yet, at the start of their journey, when a person knows neither good nor evil and cannot distinguish truth from falsehood or love from hatred, they often choose evil, which appears more attractive to them. By its very nature, evil inevitably leads to loss and suffering; to escape this suffering, the person begins to gravitate toward goodness. To embrace goodness, one must cultivate new qualities: honesty, openness, and courage. Ultimately, the person attains goodness; evil loses its appeal, and they cast it aside. Thus, God leads the person from ignorance to evil, and from evil to goodness and happiness.
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To quench one's thirst, a person needs water and a vessel to hold it (whether it be a glass or one's own mouth). Sometimes there is a vessel but no water, or water but no vessel; in either case, the thirst cannot be quenched. Without water, a person will die of thirst. The same applies to love. Love is life energy. To love, one must know how to both receive and give love. If you love but there is no one to accept that love, you must learn not to squander it on those who do not love you, but rather to cherish it for yourself. Conversely, if you are so selfish that you fail to notice those who love you, you must learn to value love. Otherwise, you will be left without life energy.
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To live in harmony with God, one must learn to expect nothing, love solitude, and be a silent observer.
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Modern humanity has reached a point where old ideas have died, yet new ones have not yet been born. Societal progress has stalled. There is nowhere left to go, and no one left to lead the way. No one believes in anything, and no one trusts anyone. The individual is left alone with themselves, forced to decide how to live, where to go, and what to live for. Yet, finding themselves free and alone, most people feel no joy; instead, they experience fear and confusion about how to live and what to do with their lives. The uncertainty of the future drives people to switch off their conscious minds and retreat from real life into virtual reality. Consequently, intellectual levels have dropped, while aggression has risen. However, it is precisely in this state of inner solitude that a person gains the opportunity to rediscover themselves and re-evaluate life at a new, higher level of existence. Such an opportunity comes along only once in a thousand years. One need only stop looking backward and instead look forward to the future, open oneself to new information, and not fear self-transformation.
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