swear to god the amt of times ive been friends with people and ill ask them a MILLION TIMES "hey are u okay with this" or "do you have any boundaries? i wanna make sure i follow them" and theyre 100% comfortable and have NO boundaries and then a week later they ++
Yo I SWEAR, guys. You ***HAVE*** to break out of this habit as soon as you can. Because if you don't, you'll be very susceptible to negative and toxic false assumptions about your friends around you, and inevitably WILL end up souring your mental image of them. Talk to them. Pls.