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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Unhealed people don't listen with their ears. They listen with their triggers. They don't hear your words. They hear their wounds. They turn calm into criticism, honesty into an attack, and silence into abandonment. Every response is shaped by fear, not understanding. You're having a conversation, but they're fighting battles from another time. No matter how gently you speak, pain speaks louder. That's why healing isn't a luxury. It's necessary for connection, for clarity, for peace
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
don’t waste your prime waiting for a man who has already decided not to choose you.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
A power couple, to me, is having pure, real love and similar mindsets. With that, you can achieve anything. That’s why I say it’s important to find the male/female version of you and lock in. Anything less is a distraction.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
One of the saddest stages is when someone still loves you but no longer feels safe bringing problems to you. They start processing everything alone because every conversation feels exhausting.
So many marriages have ended, not because the love was gone, but because they couldn’t sit down and have the difficult conversations that could have saved them.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
being loved softly is such a beautiful thing. no confusion, no guessing, no wondering where you stand.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
May you marry a man who has the deepest, healthiest obsession with you.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
I love texting on iMessage
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I hate Ghanaians that be kissing politicians asses
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
What I’ve noticed about AI generated websites (not saying they’re good or bad): - They tend to explain the interface too much. Repetitive eyebrows, unnecessary descriptions, long titles. I think when you prompt for an intuitive interface, it assumes that means overcommunicating. - It takes one small requirement and makes it the website’s whole personality. - It exaggerates animations. It doesn’t really know what subtle feels like, or when motion is needed. Sometimes it’s just a feeling, and I don’t think you can fully prompt for that. - If it were a drink, it wouldn’t go down well. I don’t know exactly how to explain this one further. The individual parts can look fine, but the whole thing doesn’t feel smooth. - It doesn’t know when to visualise data and when to just hint at it. I think a lot of this comes down to judgment. Knowing what to leave out, what to turn down, and when to stop.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
So many human, but very little humanity.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
one bold move can rewrite your entire story
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in my PRIME till eternity.
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Learn to evolve. Learn to enjoy. Learn to endure.
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Give a little kindness to your soul ✨
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
The older I get, the more I value consistency over big words. Anybody can say they care. Show me.
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i love when God shows me how good it can really get.
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Being able to articulate your thoughts into writing is a crazy gift.
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
19/09/2026 ❤️- 📸 @bracarll
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
You've seen it all. The trust issues, you can tell when they're lying to you 😭 I honestly envy high school sweethearts who got married and stayed married
Starting a new relationship in your 30s is just a nightmare 🤣🤣🤣🤣....
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Dede is Organizing DevCon26 - 19th December retweeted
Put some respect on my name!🥺❤️
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