What you call “self hating Blacks” are usually just Black people who hate criminal Blacks and their enablers. You’re looking at a negative feedback loop from inside the loop.
Black women feel attacked by Black men because Black men introspectively and earnestly trying to figure out why our communities are often subpar are tracing that back to Black women making poor mate selection choices, ending up single, and in trying to do the parenting solo, (which is supposed to be a two person job) failing to do anything but increase the YN (criminal) population more often than not. Also Black men date White women, and they REALLY hate that.
The loop:
The YNs go on to do YN things, which in turn causes everyone who isn’t one of them or an enabler (usually a White with a savior complex or their mothers) to become weary or suspicious of Blacks in general. Enough to lock up goods in general stores, or avoid Black people whenever possible.
Their behavior has a negative impact on regular Blacks in that most people can’t be bothered to attempt risking dealing with the YNs—or their evolved form, trifling niggas (YNs that make it to adulthood without being imprisoned or dead in spite of their behavior). How this negative impact manifests is different depending on person or profession.
For an obvious example: a cop who spends his whole career dealing with YNs and TNs may become jaded over time and those previous interactions often taint future ones.
If you’re a normal law abiding Black person and you’re decently smart, you can figure all this out. Communicating this in a way that is inoffensive to Black people generally is almost impossible. Your “self hating Black female” hates not all Black men per se; but, an amalgamation of all the Black men that left their mothers, sisters, cousins, and aunties to raise YNs alone.
They can’t be bothered to spend time figuring out which Black man isn’t an unresolved YN. Nor are they keen on getting at the root cause of poor mate selection. They just choose to deal with other racial groups who produce the equivalent of the YN at a much lower rate.
The “self haters” are Blacks who are in some way, shape, or form exiting the loop. Usually not before calling attention to the loop but almost assuredly after having been called a “coon” or “self hater” for bothering.
Finally, the YNs: aside from being recognized for being dangerous and intermittently dying or being jailed for their antics wind up relatively unaffected so far as being ostracized from the community goes. Sometimes becoming Trifling Niggas. They may even get some ass, generate a few baby moms, and go on to either leave, die, or go to prison.
Loop complete.
I can’t stand the self hating blacks but here’s something I’ve noticed. The self hating black men hate black people in general. The self hating black women only hate black men. What’s the deal with that?