The day after the towers fell, the city waited for the living.
Families were destroyed on the morning of 9/11 because of hatred for America’s greatness. That hatred did not vanish. Remembering what happened — all of it, not only the familiar images — still matters.
It is important to remember everything.
I have reposted the videos, photos, stories of the innocent who died and the first responders, and firefighters who ran toward the fire.
What I almost never see is what happened later that same day. And the day after September 11.
Hospitals stood ready. Ambulances lined the streets. Emergency rooms stayed empty. The victims NEVER came.
In the morning, the city asked volunteers with certain skills to come downtown and help. By late afternoon, the call was canceled. They were no longer needed.
Parents flooded the streets to pull their children from schools. Central Park was closed to traffic. Buses and subways stopped. If you did not have a private car, you walked. Survivors from the towers and nearby buildings walked for hours covered with and through ash, trying to get home.
Manhattan locked down. For a week, almost no one could enter. If you left, they told you that you might not get back in. Children who went to school in Manhattan but lived in Brooklyn or Queens slept on friends’ floors because their parents could not pick them up.
Little kids were told only that “something very bad happened” and that their parents would explain. Older students were told the Twin Towers had been attacked and that their families were coming.
Schools closed for the rest of the week.
My husband was in Chicago when every plane in the country was ordered to land. He rented a car, drove two days toward New York and then sat for an entire day at the George Washington Bridge while cars were searched.
Seats were removed. Security was tight. You could enter Manhattan only if your driver’s license showed a Manhattan address. He got in. His coworkers did not. They slept in Westchester and elsewhere for nearly a week.
That morning the sirens never stopped. By afternoon there was an eerie quiet. No more ambulances. People walked the streets holding photographs of husbands, wives, sons, and daughters who had gone to work in the towers, asking anyone if they had seen them.
The streets stayed empty for twenty-four hours. The silence was heavy. The truth was settling in: there would be almost no survivors. No one wanted to say it out loud.
The aftermath was another shock. A builder later wondered whether concrete elevator shafts instead of sheetrock might have changed the collapse. There were also the uncounted: undocumented workers in restaurants and small shops who never appeared on any official list.
On Friday, September 14, at 7 p.m., people came down from their apartments across Manhattan, lit candles on the sidewalk, and stood in silence. Flags hung from the buildings. For a moment the city stood together.
A pregnant cousin who lived downtown moved in with a friend and later uptown. There are so many stories that never made the news.
The ruins burned into December.
Police built a makeshift memorial across from the site. You could visit if you could show you knew someone who died. We took our children. Everyone was quiet. Everyone looked beaten. We knew seven people who never came home.
May their memories, and the memory of every person who died that day, be a blessing.
America lost its innocence on September 11, 2001. Life has not been the same.