"GainsMax. Do you ever give out large sums of cash to people?"
(Another very long read about my life. Enjoy. Hope this inspires at least one person.)
Yeah, occasionally, got plenty of these stories, but I'm very selective. I don't reward people waiting to be rescued.
I restore saved files, if you catch my drift. The funny thing is, the people I help usually have absolutely no idea what I do, what I invest in etc. I tend to keep it that way. Life is more fun. Yeah I trade, maybe once a month. Usually the big moves. Snipe a big move in the market and you're set for half the year, depending on your lifestyle expenses of course lol
But the money itself has created this weird quest game for me.
Example - Someone has been saving for 6 months and then some stupid $6 to 10k emergency wipes the entire thing out overnight. Sometimes I'll just fix the problem.
That's the kind of shit that gets my attention, not "give me money."
I remember talking to this one bloke who casually mentioned his car had shit itself. He wasn't dramatic about it. He was still getting himself to work, borrowing someone's car when he could, trying to organise repairs around payday.
You could tell he wasn't fishing because he changed the subject almost immediately, that's usually the giveaway.
People trying to extract money from you make sure you understand exactly how terrible their situation is.
Another time it was a couple with kids that had an absolutely brutal month. One expense after another. Something in the house broke, then the car needed work, then some kid related expense landed on top of it. Totally understandable, been there multiple times myself.
This couple weren't destitute, that's the point. They were doing everything right and life had simply decided to spawn 3 money goblins and ran with the cash.
You can actually see the mental arithmetic happening when people like that talk. "Okay, we'll pay this Friday, move that until next fortnight, put this one on the card, cancel that thing we were going to do with the kids" etc
And I'm sitting there thinking "this entire fucking problem is smaller than a position I closed last month"
That's when the sandbox feeling kicks in. Sometimes I'll intervene, not enough that they suddenly think they've found a billionaire NPC with an infinite money glitch.
Just enough to delete the immediate problem.
Save file restored.
And then I disappear back into being the guy they assume has a normal job (which I also do lmao) and occasionally fucks around with stocks.
And these moments are far more entertaining to me than buying another expensive object.
You just have to remember not to become the fucking respawn point for everyone you meet. In fact, one of the quickest ways to guarantee I never help you again would probably be treating the first time as evidence there'll be a second.
I don't have some monthly "random acts of kindness" budget like a some corporate company doing some event, it's spontaneous.
Right person.
Wrong moment.
Problem appears.
I realise I can delete it without materially affecting my own life.