What’s one thing you genuinely believe can help someone grow on this app? I mean something you’ve personally seen work. Share it. Someone might need to hear it today.

Be firm and strong in your opinions. Many people here cannot freely speak their minds, so they easily identify with accounts that can. Don’t go chasing clout, rage baiting, or just being plainly stupid because you want to come across as opinionated. Have strong opinions on certain discussions and stand by them. You can have 40% of people agreeing with you while the other 60% are cursing you out. But if they remove their bias and emotions and look at things from your perspective, they will understand that you are saying the truth. Learn to say things the way they are. Many accounts have grown on this platform by doing just this.

"Control her movements" or simply "Control" was the phrase I responded to. What you sent now puts your intentions into proper context: "strategic control", which is not done forcefully, but by providing vision, goals and boundaries. That is, you sit her down not forcefully or by yelling and make her understand why she needs not to go to a place, or wear some clothes, or why some characters or appearance isn't appropriate and probably against the family values. But when you simply say "Control", a lot of people are reading from your page, and they might take it up and use it as a form of force or dominance. I can't stress it more than this. I believe the message should be as important as the tone. Finally, sir, this screenshot isn't talking about marriage. There are things you can do within an administrative structure, but you dare not try them in your marriage. Control is not leadership; domination is not leadership.

Even to vex for person now na stress Do as you like abeg Me no get strength

When you’re about to follow someone on X, what do you look at first? Do you check their profile to see the type of content they post? Do you follow them because they followed you first? Or do you follow mainly because you want your followers to increase?

I don’t really choose who to follow by studying their profile. For me, it usually happens naturally. I keep seeing someone on my timeline. Or we regularly meet in other people’s comments. I notice they’re active, we interact a few times, and eventually I follow them. If someone follows me first and I recognize them as an active account, I’ll usually follow back too. And once I follow you, I rarely unfollow. The only time I might is when there’s absolutely ZERO mutual engagement for a long time. Because for me, X is still a social platform. We’re all trying to grow here, but I don’t think growth should only be about collecting followers. I’d rather have active people around me who actually interact and support each other. That’s how I’ve built most of my network here. But I’m curious: what matters more to you when following someone, their content or how much they engage with you?

Someone asked me for the time today, I took a glance at my phone, it was 8:29PM. I tried to round it off to 8:30, so I told the person, 8:30. Immediately I said that, my conscience whispered to me that I just lied. 🙄 Did I actually lie? 🤔🤔

If your partner loses their job and refuses to take a lower-paying role for over a year. How long before walking away becomes justified?

When you’re about to follow someone on X, what do you look at first? Do you check their profile to see the type of content they post? Do you follow them because they followed you first? Or do you follow mainly because you want your followers to increase?