I wrote THE PEOPLE WE HATE AT THE WEDDING (@FlatironBooks) / I teach at NYU. Pre-order my new book SO OLD, SO YOUNG 👇🏼

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A #NationalComingOutDay thread! When I was 13, I began collecting pictures of hot men that I found on AOL. I kept them on my family's computer, in a file called "downloads" I thought no one looked at, and I labeled them with the one word I knew to describe hot men: beefcake.
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Excited to share our latest episode featuring @GrantGinder ! We discuss his new book "So Old, So Young" and the art of storytelling. Tune in for insights and inspiration! Thanks to @warwicksbooks and @simonschuster for making this happen! share.transistor.fm/s/df6618…
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New episode! Author @GrantGinder talks with @danielfford about his new book So Old, So Young. Listen: writersbone.com/podcastsarch…
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i would like to thank this goodreads reader for giving me this incredible advertisement for SO OLD, SO YOUNG
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this is an important part of my process (having an idea after two glasses of wine, spending a year writing it, then realizing the idea I had after two glasses of wine was in fact very bad )!
.@GrantGinder has maybe done the best @nytimesbooks "By the Book" interview I've ever read. Sampling: "For me, 85 percent of being a writer is learning the hard way that the great idea I had after two glasses of wine is not, in fact, a great idea." nytimes.com/2026/02/19/books…
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Five parties. Twenty years. One friend group. SO OLD, SO YOUNG by @grantginder is a sharp, tender exploration of friendship, love, and the passage of time. On sale now 💙🧡 bit.ly/4tARYj4
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We are witnessing a murder at The Washington Post. This massacre will be the enduring legacy of Jeff Bezos and Will Lewis and the leadership who stood by. But please read my love letter to the paper that felt like home, and will always be my “we.” ❤️‍🩹theatlantic.com/politics/202…
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Is Infinite Jest discourse a recession indicator I can never seem to remember
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New York is AMAZING because sometimes it takes you one train ride to get home and sometimes it takes you four train rides, one bus ride, and a 25 minute walk in sub-freezing temperatures to get home.
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omg boston did something right
Not a single ticket sold for the opening night of Melania at Boston’s largest theater
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you guys excellent news: in addition to providing me with last night's recipe for a zippy, zesty chicken ramen the NYT also thinks that SO OLD, SO YOUNG is a book you should read in February! nytimes.com/2026/01/29/books…
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are you sane or like me did you go see Oedipus with your mother
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send her to the cottage
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the ice caps will melt, the oceans will rise, civilizations will crumble, and my mother will still be asking me if she can wear jeans to a restaurant in New York.
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imagine having never heard of Ian McEwan
Atonement (2007) has one of the bleakest endings of its era. Wright lets you believe in the happy version just long enough before pulling the floor out, and that final reveal lands like a quiet heartbreak you can’t shake.
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We are two startups away from the total obliteration of vowels
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the thing i love most about the gay hockey show is its elegant and surprising structure, which is: gay sex, time jump, gay sex, time jump, quick talk with an overbearing mother, gay sex, time jump.
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How's this for hell: I'm currently on a plane from JFK to Seattle. The man behind me has been eating Doritos very loudly since we took off from what seems be a magical, bottomless bag. Meanwhile, my left AirPod, for reasons inexplicable, did not charge, leaving me defenseless.
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But wait, there's more: There is a woman sitting next to me in the middle seat who is sleeping and snoring. The window seat is vacant, but she has—also for reasons inexplicable—elected to sit directly next to me instead of leaving a free seat between us.
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