6 years ago today, I proposed to my wife, secretly wishing I could be the one getting a ring.
Today, she returned the favor and got me my own for our anniversary dinner.
Never kill yourself!
hope this is obvious but if not, i am very happy i proposed to her and that i was able to give her a ring that she loves. i just wanted to be given that experience too, and im so glad she sensed that and gave it to me. We love each other very much!
how to be a transphobe on twitter:
-Separate sentences into short phrases. Avoid contractions.
-ONLY comment on and view transgender's posts
-Use the worst emojis imaginable when you make a bad joke (such as 🤣)
-be trans
how do you come out at a job where every coworker is a protestant white guy welder and your boss who owns the company is mennonite and its a small business (like only 35 dudes) so theres no HR
so dumb to me when transphobes say “you had facial hair before” as a way to write off your transness. like, its pretty common as a repper to have one last “im gonna suck it up and be a man” phase right before everything comes crashing down hard for the final time.
for me its been playing online games with my voice and getting gendered correctly every time. i still havent really had that experience irl yet but the first time i pass (if i ever do) im sure that will top the list :D
if you do this to your account, you should not be allowed to have conversations on MY POSTS or have my posts linked in your posts.
the equivalent of whispering in your friends ear while someone else is standing right there 😭
The stages of dissociation as a trans woman:
1. Dissociating from life entirely because you’re repressing
2. Dissociating when you are in girlmode because it’s so rare and you look so different
3. Dissociating from old pics of yourself and feeling like they aren’t actually you
also style / knowing ur face shape and what diminishes the masculine features helps me a lot. dark lipstick draws attention away from my chin, the bangs and glasses help hide my forehead and browbone, face framing layers bring it together :p
Post pics of some makeup, outfit, hair etc. that you are proud of under this comment, I'm proud of everyone who is trying their best despite their circumstances ❣️