Not in return. As a habit.
All those "for her to this for him, he must have been doing a lot for her" is scam.
"If you spend on me, I'll give you the world" is fraud.
People in love are not reciprocating or counting score. They are just loving as the day goes because it is good for their heart. It is not the "do 10 for me, I do one for you" no sense you people practice in Nigeria.
They are not doing because you did. They are doing because loving you makes them happy.
If a woman is not gifting you in return, just know that you’re wasting your money.