I feel like people don't understand that confrontation is, in fact, an act of grace. I'm putting an issue to you because I care. This is me giving you the benefit of a doubt. It's an opportunity to share your perspective and for us to reach a conclusion.
And with confrontational people, the only acceptable outcome is them being right and the conversation going exactly as they’ve planned. You can’t ask for examples or details because then you’re gaslighting. You can’t disagree and share your perspective, because again: gaslighting