Normalize being very direct, very straight to the point, and very assertive. A surprising amount of tension in adult life exists because people avoid saying what they actually mean.
We live in a society where maximizing sexual appeal has become more important than self development. Looking desirable gets more attention than becoming capable, educated, disciplined and financially independent.
That should concern us.
You won’t date a broke man who has limited options, but you expect a wealthy man with endless options to choose you exclusively while you bring little besides entitlement and sex.
Be serious. Why would the man with the most options choose the woman offering the least?
Part of growing up is realizing you’re not above anything. Homelessness, job loss, heartbreak, illness, failure, even death can happen to anyone. Life can humble you overnight. Stay grateful, stay grounded, and never look down on someone struggling.