Barbara Stanwyck with lover Robert Wagner on the set of “Titanic” in 1953. Robert Wagner was 22 at the time; Stanwyck was 45. Wagner, who I got to know after interviewing him in London, recalled that he was mesmerised by her sexuality during shooting: “They now say that she was a lesbian, or some such nonsense, but I can assure you that was not the case. I was very attracted to her and it was mutual.” Initially, Stanwyck was friendly, but not overly so. Then, after a dinner party at the house of the film’s director Jean Negulesco, Wagner drove Stanwyck home. After opening her front door, he turned to the actress to “discover something I hadn’t seen in her eyes before. It was a magical look of interest, and appreciation and desire.” In his memoirs, “Pieces of My Heart”, the actor wrote, “I immediately took her in my arms and kissed her. I had never had a reaction from a woman like I had from Barbara. It was a different kiss, with a different feeling.” Their four year affair began that night. She cooked for him and the couple went hiking in the mountains above Malibu. They watched boxing matches on the television and screened many of Stanwyck’s movies, including “Ball of Fire” and “Double Indemnity.” Wagner continued, “Barbara taught me everything she knew about acting and how to navigate Hollywood. We became part of each other’s lives. Eventually, the affair ended because we both finally realized that it couldn’t go anywhere - it was a classic back street romance. She was an enormous influence on my life and still is. Barbara gave me self-esteem. She was a wonderful woman.”