to go about your day with this fact in mind, that only 50% of people are supposed to like you AND NOT 80%,
you free yourself from all kinds of validation seeking behaviors, as your mind now knows it’s okay to not be liked.
hence, you’ll find it much easier to just be yourself.
think about this fact, a lot.
President of the USA has a 50/50 shot of being liked. Roughly speaking.
Why do you expect 80% of people to like you?
In general meet 4 people. 1 likes you a lot, 1 hates you, 2 are around neutral.
Focus on the wins not the losses, it just feels worse to focus on the bad one.