October 8, 1953. It was a parent/teacher open-house that afternoon in Grade 2, Bedford Park School, Toronto. The night before, for the first (and last) time ever, I had a painting of mine hung on the classroom wall.
The night before we’d gone out for dinner, and my mother had screamed a lot in the night. Dad reassured me her pork chops at the restaurant last night must have upset her stomach and not to worry. But I was soooooo excited about having that painting on the wall, I wanted them both to come and see it. We had a tiny print of Tom Thompson’s ‘Jack Pine’ hung on the kitchen wall, and I was determined at 6 years old to be a painter as well as a writer, so my painting was really important to me. Both Mom and Dad said they’d come “if they could.”
I waited and waited until every parent had come and gone with their student. No sign of mine! The teacher finally insisted I go home. I was heartbroken.
As if that wasn’t enough, when I got up on our big porch, it was Granny Mildon, who opened the door, a woman who never liked young children much. Clearly a disaster must have happened!
“No,” said Granny. “You have a baby brother.” Still, at almost 7, that didn’t mean much.
Then the phone rang. It was my father and he told me Peter John had been born and mother was fine. “Can you hear Peter?’ Dad asked proudly. “He’s the loudest in the nursery.”
No question, I could hear loud screaming in the background. My little brother had a good set of lungs from day one.