I choose to put my money into the fandom, businesses in the fandom, charities, businesses outside of the fandom. I think I do a pretty good job at picking the food companies too.
I will acknowledge: sometimes I will buy something beyond that scope to treat myself (or in the case of current events my husband). You can debate wether that's okay or not all you want and I won't judge you for feeling negative towards those choices. Also, you clearly don't agree with Blue Origins mission so we don't have to debate that here.
I just mainly want to express that I do support our community. More more than you know.