somewhere, a few months ago, the word performative entered my brain. it's a virus.
often, you have to pretend to be things before you can be them. whether that’s brave, organized, fit or whatever.
all the world is a stage.
This is my same issue with the ‘performative’ meme, which I think does more harm than good. The fear of being labelled performative can scare some people out of expressing themselves at all
We are social creatures and being witnessed is part of life. Sometimes people are cynically posturing, but performance and sincerity are not opposites