This is dumb. I hadn't changed a diaper either before having kids, except my baby brother's once when I was like 7. And men are appropriately wary of just offering to change the diapers of other people's children. It's not a hard skill to learn once you have a child. It's fine.
been doing this bit where i ask (childless) men my age if they've ever changed a diaper and so far not a single one has said yes???
idk the idea that the first diaper you'd ever change would be your own baby's feels crazy to me. no wonder some men find fatherhood intimidating.