"I want a man with money and already established"
Mind you most of these men are just angry that no woman looked their way when they had nothing. Now you're in a prison of abuse that wealth can decorate a cage so beautifully that you mistake captivity for luxury.
Young girls see “baddies” living a soft life in their early 20s that very few can achieve all on their own (male or female). These lifestyles are usually sponsored by “blessers” that fund the whole thing. Some of these girls are unlucky enough to even marry and have kids with these guys.
Don’t these “baddies” ask themselves. Why is an “established” wealthy man who has achieved so much in his life looking for young girls?? Surely if all was well he would be happy at home with his wife and kids.
What they don’t know is that they are willingly headed for a nightmare they might never wake up from. These men are very usually the worst you can come across. Abusive and controlling due to the power and egos the posses.
I’m willing to bet this is how 99% of these relationships look behind closed doors. Our baddies shine in the light but suffer in darkness. Nothing comes without a price. Especially the lifestyles they portray to us🙏