the important thing to remember as a Neurodivergent Individual is that nobody will ever be willing to help you. you have to do everything yourself or you will die. humans are not altruistic. society is a negative sum game where you have to put more effort in than you get back
"Neurodivergent" Twitter seems to have this insane consensus that they just don't have to do something if they find it harder than neurotypicals. A whole community full of people with learned helplessness.