Online dating has changed so rapidly since 2023. Back then, you could actually go on Seeking Arrangements and treat it like a normal dating app. Like girls who were legit dimes would go on a normal date with you and even hook up, they didn't even the concept of Sugaring as much. Before that, the app was a hidden gem. I remember going to Montreal and having dates right back to my house, got 4 lays off of it and all we did was drink wine. 2024? Complete 180. Now you needed a "Pay Per Meet" (PPM) that girls would say was in the thousands and normal girls had a mass exodus from the site. Now in 2026? Normal apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are full of Sugar Babies and Escorts. The "Traditional" started being spammed there in 2025. It's wild!

Observations about online dating and how it has changed in the past 2 years or so. 1. Pro Photos no longer work, girls can sniff them from a mile away. Never seen so many profiles bomb after a pro photoshoot. It used to work years ago, you just hire a famous photographer to take pics of you for the apps but now, women want something more natural that looks like a friend took it. Don't spend the thousands on that photoshoot. 2. Way more working girls, escorts, and sugar babies even on the main apps. Women are getting desperate for cash. So many escorts, sugar babies, and working girls. If you read "Traditional", "Spoil me", or "Dinner dates", this is 100% a working girl. You find them now on Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble, super prominent in Miami. 3. Pay to play. You must get premium or you will struggle. I have not seen any profile that was free do well anymore. It used to be super common in the 2010s and even before 2024 but now, if you are a free profile even as a Chad, you will be getting scraps. Pay for boosts and superlikes or go home empty.

It seems like the real sign of a guy being actually rich and good with women is that he is actually trying to avoid attention, unless that is what got him there in the first place (ie: famous streamer). Everyone else "networking" and speaking about their credentials? He is in the background keeping a low profile. Drunk guys being loud, talking about their conquests, and talking a girl's ear off for a number where she won't call back? He is sort of away from all of that and silently judging them for being buffoons. The stealth by which successful men operate and their hate for the lime light is something you only understand once you have been there or are on the cusp.

Don't hate the weak and cowardly man because he is weak, helpless, and incompetent. Hate him because he: - Will backstab you on a moment's notice - Will throw you under the bus over anything - Will try to drag you down in life with him - Will hate and judge you for your grand ambitions - Will foil your ambitious plans out of envy Hate him because he is a snake in the grass.

Your life won't take off to its fullest potential until you start hating weak, spineless, cowardly, and undesirable men as much as desirable women hate them. The day you realize the real reason behind why women hate these types of men is the day your life skyrockets.

"Peter Pan" is just an envious gaslight tactic used by: - Women over 30 who are no longer marriage material - Men over 30 stuck in miserable marriages - Suburbanites who know their best days are behind them - Small town people whose lives ended after graduating high school - People in third world countries where you would get stoned for sex before marriage Who doesn't say "Peter Pan" a lot? - Hot girls in their prime - Chads - The few happily married people who love their families

So let me get this straight, Gen Zs have to deal with: - Developmental years being lost due to COVID - A horrible entry-level job market due to AI - A world changing more rapidly than ever before - The wildest geopolitical climate since WW2 And yet you you want them to get married and have kids immediately. The people telling them this should be the first sent to the front lines of a war for how evil their advice is.

What gets me about Kash Patel and Alexis Wilkins is that so many of these interracial couples involving good looking White women tend to all happen on the Right Wing. For all the virtue signaling White Liberal women do, they will not mix with anyone other than White guys or Black guys. I can't help but wonder if this played a major role in Latino men shifting heavily to the Right in the 2024 election, like they saw through the BS of the Latte Drinking Kate in Manhattan and decided to get out of there.

Number one lesson after a few years in Miami: Life is pretty sweet when there are a lot of hot Latinas around

The truth we don't want to admit about the Passport Bros movement is that it takes two to tango. If we say women from a certain country are supposedly undesirable and the dating market there is cooked, then we have to put the blame solely on the men in these countries. It was them who let it get this way. It was them who brought out the worst in women with their behavior. The women and dating market didn't turn into a dumpster fire out of the blue. We also have to be careful when large numbers of men from these places flood or go into any country with "feminine" and desirable women. Who is to say they won't turn that new place they flooded into the same place they supposedly ran from?

The entire Passport Bros movement doesn't spiritually sit right with me and I fail to see how it's not parasitic. You have guys from countries where the women are supposedly undesirable and the dating market is cooked going to countries where the women are more "feminine" and desirable. Okay....but how did the dating market get cooked and the women become undesirable in the first place? It's because of these very same guys. So if you do this at scale, then what happens to the dating markets that are good with desirable and feminine women? They turn into the same dumpsters. Make these locusts and parasites have some accountability. Make them fix the dating markets of their own country.

One massive problem with "Pickup" and "Game" advice that made it dangerous was that it taught guys to treat every chick like a loose tourist in Vegas. This kind of stuff can get you into legal trouble in the wrong city. This is why you had the Eaton City Centre fiasco in Toronto where Pickup Artists were banned. Ever wonder why Pickup Coaches do "Bootcamps" in cities with a huge party scene? It's because these are the only places their advice of going direct, escalating fast, and cheesy pickup lines works.

I don't know the Cornell Seven situation in its entirety and don't want to say too much until a verdict is reached. If what these guys are accused of is true, I hope they rot. However, even if they are not guilty, a big lesson for men. In feminized environments, in this case an Ivy League college campus, keep all of your sexual conquests private and SHUT UP. Do not go around boasting about your sex life, it is suicide and you just put a target on your back. There are too many weak and bitter men who will make an enemy out of you. Even if they do not get to you, they will get to her and ruin her if she doesn't turn on you. More of all, NEVER EVER record unless she does it for you and is 100% down with it. This is why Jack Denmo is in prison. In such places, move with discretion. In reality, the women you get with can be your friends as they see through the BS but at the end of the day, the lynch mob does not care. If she doesn't turn on you, they will ruin and break her until she does.

French guys in a nutshell and my point on how weak men act. Arab and Black French men are not like this and are far more supportive. If a White French guy is speaking to a French girl in French about you, he is 100% saying awful things. Here is how you handle this situation. During the conversation, sooner rather than later, when the vibe is going well you get the WhatsApp or digits at all costs. Do not wait around at all. Do it in a very casual way, just say "Here let me get your WhatsApp", get it, and then immediately go back into the conversation you were having. If the guy is in that conversation, ask for his number too if he is clearly a part of her group, you don't want to alienate the men that easily. Accept that at some point, you may lose the set. Here, even a day 2 may have been tricky if she was traveling with the guys. They may have shamed her in private for going off with some random stranger. If she didn't know them, then your chances of a date and close go up exponentially.