Maybe because of the fact that his primary response to Via's VERY valid lash out at him is "I had it worse"...?
Him saying she doesn't know what it is like NOT having a choice is also INSANE because unlike her, he DID have multiple choices and actively fucked up.
Stolas literally has a whole section in this song where he's clearly taking accountability and yet I still see plenty of numpties getting upset and calling him manipulative
I'm so glad Spindlehorse is writing the story instead of yall