If you are an XRP holder, please be kind to the BTC guys!
BTC was founded on the libertarian ideal of self-custody, immunity from deflation, control, and other shenanigans (which is why I was drawn to it). So, the last few years of big-money control, and now government/political involvement! If you are intellectually honest, it's incompatible with the whole ideal that BTC represents - and that is hard to come to terms with.
XRP, on the other hand, has always been about integration into the mainstream economic system. So, no soul-searching has been necessary.