My step-sister has practically disappeared from our family since she married a pastor. She is a very beautiful lady. Shortly after the marriage, her husband began restricting what she could wear and do. No trousers. No hair attachments or wigs. No makeup. No painted nails. No earrings. He also stopped her from using social media. At first I thought it was only Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. But WhatsApp too? She even left our family WhatsApp group. Gradually she stopped visiting home. She stopped communicating with her siblings and her mum and our father. She eventually blocked her mother. Even when we had burials in the family, she would not show up, despite living very close. Her brothers tried to get her out of that marriage. She insisted she loved her husband. The last time they attempted to take her away, her husband called the police on them. Eventually they gave up. Then her mother became seriously ill. She was sick for months. This girl never showed up. She did not visit, call, or check on her. Her mother died. She did not attend the burial or send anyone to represent her. Yesterday was her birthday. I decided to call and wish her well. She had blocked my main number, so I used my house phone. She picked up. Immediately I mentioned my name, she wanted to end the call. I begged her to hear me out. I wished her a happy birthday. She said she does not celebrate birthdays because they are demonic. I asked if she still communicated with her brothers. She said she had no brothers. She came into this world alone and would leave alone. Then I asked if she knew her mother had died. She said yes. According to her, her husband had told her through a vision that her mother was a witch, and that was why she could not visit her. Now that her mother was dead, she said she could come home whenever she wanted. I was speechless.

My 24 years old cousin living with my brother spent 800k to buy an iPhone for a girl , I don’t know what she promised him . But guess what ? My brother took him to the girl’s house and collected the phone back . I couldn’t stop laughing 😂😂😂.

I dey the Location😁😁. Party go soon start. Una still dey church?

You’re not living above your means, the economy is just rubbish. Stop calculating every expense you made, standards of living is not encouraging this period.

Na when a married man goes broke he suddenly remembers that his wife is more valuable than all the side chicks he was sponsoring. 🤣 Money finishes, sense returns!

If you're a cobbler (Shoemaker) this one is for you This coming December most bankers will be having their end of the year party Draft out a proposal (Ai can do that for you if you explain it well to it) Starting from Monday dress coperately and visit the bank and ask to see the bank manager Tell him/her confidently and politely what you do and how the staffs can benefit at a discount price, Show evidence of some of the works you've done for your clients Visit all the banks in your location before the end of November and see what will happen

The last hair I styled before I gave birth How was it?

I pray for you, that before the end of this year, the Lord will give you mind-blowing testimony that will make your head spin . In Jesus Name. Amen Happy Sunday my Lovelies 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

Does a man have the right to always go to his wife’s shop to ask for money and promise to pay back but never pays back, just because he opened the shop for her? To the extent she now hides her sales book. A friend’s husband opened a frozen food shop for her but won’t stop asking for money for one thing or the other and never pays back . She is really worried .

There are some certain occupation or jobs that if you're doing, do not give birth to more than 3 kids. School teachers, bankers, nurses, POS merchant, retail provision vendors Gone are the days when you can train 6 children with that your job.

Stop Watering Gardens That Refuse to Grow. 📌 Invest Your Energy Where Growth Is Mutual. Candy Love 💜✨💜

There’s this supermarket my babe and I used to visit whenever we needed to get things. Last night, I passed through that area with a female friend after an event and decided to buy a few things. Then… the shop attendant suddenly said, “My regards to [her name].” I was shocked. Now I’m just hoping nobody gets the wrong idea and goes to tell my babe another story.

Nepa bringing the light just now, like a thief in the midnight. They will take it again before some people even notice there's light 😞

A man came to my shop 2days ago to do transfer. He told me he would send 2M to my business account and I would help him to send to various people. I asked why he can’t send the money himself, he said he wanted to go use ATM to send it at once to be. My instinct told me something was wrong with everything so I told him I won’t do the transaction, he hissed and left my shop. I can’t put myself in danger because of 3k charges I want to collect cos my husband had told me something similar. If truly he wanted to use ATM, he could have just done the transfer there. That evening, I heard a POS woman was attested for receiving huge amount in her account. I was just thanking God for rejecting his offer. Please becareful out there🙏🏼🙏🏼

For those who manage to take a vacation every year, what’s one tip or strategy that has helped you make it happen consistently?

My female neighbour came to me yesterday crying as if someone had died, so I asked her what happened. That's when she started narrating what her boyfriend did to her. According to her, she and her boyfriend have been dating for a month +. Before she met him, she had been using an iPhone XR since 2024. Her ex-boyfriend was actually the one who bought it for her. After she started dating her new boyfriend, she complained that she wanted to change her phone because the screen was already bad, and he agreed to get her another one. He went to the market and bought her a UK-used iPhone 11 Pro. When she saw the phone, she wasn't impressed. She told him, "Out of all the iPhones available, na this one you buy for me?"

Rest is a very crucial ans important part of our life. As much as our body needs it for a better well being. We need it for a sound mind as well. I'm glad you did it so well and felt better afterwards. Shalom.

I’m dating my sister’s ex. My sister and this guy were dating and living together, and at the same time I was staying with my baby daddy. The four of us used to do everything together. The problem was that my sister and my baby daddy used to cheat on us constantly. That made me and my sister’s boyfriend grow very close we became best friends. They broke up three years ago, and after that I stopped talking to him. He moved on with another woman. We later met again on Facebook, exchanged numbers, and he asked me out. I agreed. He then started telling me how much he had loved me even when he was still with my sister. I won’t lie, I had feelings for him too, but because of our past relationships I was hesitant. Eventually I decided to give it a chance. Now we’re madly in love and we’re buying furniture so we can move in together. How do I tell my family that I’m dating my sister’s ex, especially since he says he wants to marry me?

Knowing when to walk away isn't weakness; it's choosing your peace over temporary comfort.

Yesterday, I deliberately gave myself a break. After my morning routine and attending to the kids, I dropped my phone, slept for four straight hours, woke up , watched a movie, had dinner and went back to sleep. This morning, I woke up feeling so fresh, light and relaxed. Even the headaches and body aches are gone. Sometimes, all your body needs is rest. After all the stress from Monday to Friday, make Saturday a day to slow down. Rest is just as essential as water to our bodies.