This is an interesting archetype, albeit evolutionary dead end. We know going back to the Mesolithic, 50k+ years ago that male-only groups exterminated the girly-boys, 100% effectiveness. Go a bit further back 20M+ years, and that's true of all the great apes.
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It's wild to still see rites of men making the rounds. We had to delay with this as far back as 2012 (that I know of) and it always sucked.
Performative masculinity, similar to the Pidgeon dancing of bf Skinner experiment fame. Guys cargo cult useful activities, because things aren't hard like they used to be (few exceptions. Pro sports and special forces eg)
The rites of passage were neolithic rituals and I find it hard to believe men have been aimless since the agricultural revolution. Beyond that, you went to war because the kind told you to. Your farmed as soon as able because food was hard. There was no rites, you were out to work once you were useful.
And now that the industrial revolution had oil replace man's labor as the primary driver of productivity, men navel gaze about hunting deer and eating their heart.