Tonight i had dinner with a friend who is a manager at a big tech company in the bay area, her company just finished another round of layoffs, halfway through our conversation she told me a detail that stayed in my mind for a long time
Among the people who were laid off, there was a single mother who had been with the company for four years, on her desk there was always a photo of her with her boss and his family at christmas, my friend said he looked at it from far away, but did not dare to go over and say hello
During these four years at the company, this single mother had done many things beyond her job responsibilities, she remembered her boss childrens birthdays, she remembered his wifes birthday too, every time there was a team event she was always the most active, she was naturally an introverted person, those moments of initiative came from the clear calculation of a single mother, she did not have a second income to fall back on, so she needed to fight for every bit of loyalty she could get from the company
The day the layoff list came out, her name was still on it, after the layoff nobody gave her any extra time, she received the email on friday afternoon, her access card stopped working at six oclock, her slack account was deactivated the next day, when she walked out of the office building, not a single person who had once taken photos with her or told her you are family came to see her off
The next two months were even harder, she was on an H-1B, the sixty day grace period was like a knife hanging over her head, her child was still in private school, the rent still had to be paid, cobra cost more than two thousand dollars a month, but as a mother she did not dare let her child be without health insurance, she sent out more than a hundred resumes, and received fewer than ten responses
My friend said he invited her for coffee last week, she was still pretending that everything was fine, thirty minutes after they met, she finally broke down and cried, asking herself what exactly she had done wrong in these four years
Actually she had done nothing wrong, she had simply stepped into a trap of warmth packaged by the rules without realizing it
The big tech companies in the bay area are very good at this kind of warm narrative, from the team lunch on the first day you join, to the we care for each other repeated again and again in the culture deck, to the bosses sincere we are together at all hands, in front of business logic, the lifespan of all these things only lasts until one second before the layoff email is sent
After that second, the connections from the past, the late nights of overtime, even the photo on the desk, can all be stripped away in an instant, you are no longer anyones family, you become a headcount in the budget sheet again, an operating cost written in excel
The essence of at will employment has never changed, the company can terminate the contract at any time within what the law allows, without having to provide extra protection for your life
I have also seen too many such backs walking away in the bay area and silicon valley, the most cruel mismatch is that employees try to use emotional investment to gain a sense of security, while the organization has always been using rules to calculate the input and output ratio
That friday afternoon, she took all her personal belongings with her, except she left that group photo on her desk, my friend said that until the cleaning staff came to clear the desk, the photo was still standing there in the same place, It was like a silent metaphor, leaving behind the final absurd yet realistic footnote for everyone who had once given their whole heart to a company