No, itβs not Christian at all. Fallen men who twist or abuse Scripture to control their wives are not modeling Godβs design for a Christian husband. Christ is the model. He served, sacrificed, loved & ultimately laid down His life for His bride. Biblical headship should look like Christ, not domination. Control & oppression are distortions of biblical Christianity, not examples of it. Iβve been married to my husband for almost 32 years, & I can tell you from experience that the closer he walks with Christ, the better he loves & treats me along with everyone else in his life. Christlike leadership doesnβt make a man more controlling. It makes him more loving, sacrificial, patient & willing to serve.