Like they said, "men dey". May I never have such an unfortunate friend like this.

He's Jamaican I guess. Jamaican men are the most wayward fathers on earth. He probably abandoned his son and the mum and now, wants to reap where he didn't sow.

"Marriage doesn't favour women".

Those ladies shouted “MEN DEY!” and the pastor closed the service. But I want you all to pause for a moment and think deeply about that statement: “MEN DEY!” You think say men no truly dey? 😂 Omo, men dey o! The simps, the Yahoo boys, the fraudsters, the thieves, the indisciplined men, and even married men who still spend lavishly on random ladies. These categories of men exist in our society, and many of them are willing to spend money recklessly just to impress women. So, when some ladies shout “MEN DEY!”, ask yourself: Which men are they talking about, and what exactly are these men bringing to the table? Like I always say, I can’t entirely blame our ladies for their mentality today because we men played a significant role in creating it. Men are the ones who turned money into a measure of a man’s worth in relationships. Men are the ones who taught some women to expect financial benefits before they can offer genuine commitment. Men are the ones who made reckless spending look like love and financial irresponsibility look like generosity. Now, some men who cannot compete financially feel pressured to borrow, struggle, or live beyond their means just to meet standards they didn’t create. WE MEN CREATED MANY OF THE STANDARDS WE ARE NOW COMPLAINING ABOUT. So, before you blame women for their expectations, ask yourself: Who taught them to expect these things in the first place? The uncomfortable truth is that some of the relationship problems men complain about today are consequences of the standards other men established yesterday.

Translation: He is the good man, intentional and safe. She wanted excitement from bad boys. She dated them, and they left her. She had to come back to the guy she kept as option. May God never let me be this guy.

That number 2 and 3 are very important.

Vice versa

This is very important.

You are allowed to be unsure about somebody. You are not entitled to keep them hopeful because you enjoy the attention while you decide whether a better option will appear. If you know you don't want them, say it. They may be disappointed. Let them be disappointed by the truth instead of spending months arranging their life around a possibility you have already ruled out.

Marriage is not for lovers... it's for forgivers, communicators, sacrificers, servants, builders, protectors & those with patience

You go learn.

I don't drink, but I always make sure to waybill the drinks. The drinks in Nigeria are poison.

Get rid of Carrick to save our season.

Hurts more when you go above and beyond for them but they will never do the same. They run away when you are going through life.

Pray you never have a useless child like this.

1. I will not apologise to you just because I want peace to reign when you are the one who wronged me. I’d rather lose the relationship. If you cannot hold yourself accountable, you are not the person for me. 2. I do not tolerate disrespect. Not even as a joke. Especially not as a joke. 3. If you have a problem with cooking for your partner, I’m not the person for you. 4. You don’t ever have to worry about cooking because it’s one of the things I genuinely enjoy doing. However, this doesn’t negate what I said in number three. 5. Unless you are deep into fitness like me and are posting your gains, you cannot be posting your bum on social media. I’m not a “mature” boyfriend. 6. My obligation is to treat you right and love you softly, genuinely, and intentionally. But if you cannot reciprocate that energy, I’ll leave you. 7. You cannot have a male bestie under my regime. 8. Dates are important to me. I will initiate, plan, and pay for most of them, but you must also initiate, plan, and pay for some dates. I’m a baby boy too. 9. If I tell you that something you did hurt me, don’t tell me it’s not that deep. I will not let you gaslight or manipulate me into questioning my feelings. Don’t dismiss my feelings, ever. 10. Cheating is a deal-breaker. I will not forgive you for it. 11. Access to phones is important to me. This doesn’t mean I’m interested in going through your phone, but if you suddenly start guarding it around me, I’ll assume you’re hiding something. 12. I don’t want to hear about what your ex did for you. If you keep bringing him or your exes up unnecessarily, I will leave you. 13. I like sex, and I’m considerate. I also understand that I don’t own your body. However, if my sexual needs are consistently neglected, I’ll leave you. 14. Even when you are angry, talk to me softly. We can disagree without being cruel to each other. Don’t raise your voice at me, talk to me like a decent adult. 15. If you need a break from the relationship, please don’t come back. 16. Don’t use a breakup as a threat, a weapon, or a joke whenever we have a minor misunderstanding. If you tell me you want to end the relationship, I will respect your decision, and there will be no coming back from it.

When you find someone who handles your heart with care, stands beside you when life gets difficult, and reminds you through their actions that you are a priority, protect that relationship. Don’t be like the silly ones.

Oh no. If it isn't the consequence of my own actions. Go and ask your fellow bigots to patronise you. I will go give you 1 star review, hope that helps.

I don't agree with this. Some women don't like or appreciate good men, that doesn't mean you shouldn't be a good man to another woman. A woman raised on love, will appreciate a good man.

Imagine publicly calling your mum a "pick me". Any way, she was brought up in a different era. It's your duty to discuss the issue with your husband. This should have been discussed before marriage. May be you are the pick me who was too eager for marriage.