Today's my 40th birthday.
As I cross into the 5th decade of my life, it's a great time to reflect. These big ones always are.
In four decades on our fair blue planet, I was fortunate enough to marry to my college sweetheart, have four beautiful children, experience great wins and losses, start my own business, witness my father's eventual losing fight with cancer, and to see ups and downs of all sorts and magnitudes for this great nation of ours.
Going into my fifth decade, I imagine the next 10 to 20 years will be very similar. Wins and losses. Trials and tribulations. Glory and failure.
The one area I think I've gotten wiser is on "purpose". As a young man I was consumed with a desire to "make it", to "become someone important", etc etc.
As I've gotten older, and maybe a bit more mature (and wise), I have realized what a farce that is.
Some of the unhappiest people I know are also quite successful.
What I really want, at this point in my life, is a pleasant, sun-filled afternoon with my children, family and my friends. My kids won't remember how hard I worked, nor any businesses I built (unless it outlasts me, I suppose).
What they WILL remember is the numerous times I was too stressed out to read them a book at night, or say prayers with them, or any of the other innumerable small things that really matter but seem irrelevant in the moment.
So - I pray that the next 40 years of my life (and yours) are ones filled with more peace, less stress, and more connection with our families and our friends.
May God bless us all!