“Dear Dr. Fauci,
For 12 years, I was an emergency room nurse. I loved caring for people on their hardest days. I wasn’t looking for a fight or trying to make a statement — I just wanted to care for my patients and go home to my family.
Then I was faced with a decision that changed everything.
I spent countless hours praying, researching, and searching my heart. I wasn’t acting out of fear. I was trying to make the right medical decision for my own body and my own circumstances.
When the time came, I said no.
That one word cost me the career I’d spent 12 years building. My husband and I sold nearly everything we owned and moved across the country to Tennessee to start over. You don’t make a decision like that unless your convictions run deeper than your comfort.
But losing my career wasn’t the hardest part. Watching our profession change was.
I watched patients ridiculed for their choices, labeled “non-compliant” as if that erased everything else about who they were. I watched staff treat them like the enemy instead of the person in front of them. I heard a doctor say he’d leave patients outside in the parking lot — that’s what they get. I was met with the same ridicule and hostility for following my own conscience.
Healthcare taught me to see the person before the diagnosis. To care first, to listen, to treat every patient with dignity — whether or not I agreed with their decision. Somewhere along the way, it felt like many of us forgot that.
I don’t write this because of politics. I write it because accountability matters, and the people whose lives were changed deserve to have their stories heard.
This is my story.
My hope is that we never again ask healthcare workers to choose between their conscience and their calling. That informed consent stays meaningful. That respectful questions are welcomed, not feared. And that next time, compassion doesn’t depend on agreement.
This isn’t written from bitterness — it’s written from grief for what was lost, gratitude for where God has led my family, and hope that truth and compassion guide us forward.”
Amy Frame, RN, BSN, NC-BC, ACC
A Nurse. A Wife. A Mother