A man is a grown adult who understands that unprotected sex can result in pregnancy. Abortion is not a loophole for men to evade responsibility. It is a woman’s choice because it is her body, her health and her life that are directly affected by that decision.
If she chooses not to have an abortion, her decision doesn’t absolve him of responsibility. You cannot participate in creating a life, insist that she terminate the pregnancy and then use her decision not to as justification for abandoning your responsibilities. If you are certain you don’t want a child, take responsibility for your reproductive choices before a pregnancy happens. You don’t get to dictate what a woman does with her body and then punish her for choosing differently.
If a man tells you to have an abortion because he doesn’t want the baby please listen him. And if you decide to keep the baby after he has made it clear that akamfuni umntana, don’t make that man trend on social media for not supporting a child he told you from the beginning he didn’t want. He made it clear ukuba akamfuni so icacile he will not support the child .