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So apt, almost like we're paying to be love or treated well 😔🤧
The Nigerian man has been psychologically conditioned to believe that he must pay for the love he deserves to receive freely.
Perhaps one of the greatest injustices society has done to him is convince him that he must earn the right to be loved.
From childhood, he is conditioned to believe that his worth lies in what he can provide, that affection must be purchased, and that he is undeserving of love until he has the financial capacity to prove otherwise.
He grows up confusing provision with affection, sacrifice with love, and financial responsibility with emotional worth. Eventually, he begins to give beyond his means, tolerate what diminishes him, and sacrifice his peace just to maintain the affection of someone who might never have loved him beyond what he offers.
Some even pay to sustain the illusion of being wanted.
The tragedy is not that a man wants to provide for someone he loves. There is dignity in that. The tragedy is when he begins to believe that what he provides is the only thing that makes him worthy of love.
A man who believes he must constantly prove his worth through material provision will eventually struggle to distinguish between being loved and being useful.
And perhaps that is the deepest form of exploitation: convincing someone that the only way to deserve affection is to keep giving, even when giving is all he is valued for.
Love should inspire you to give, not condition you to believe that without giving, you are nothing.
The moment you lose yourself trying to earn someone's love, you must ask yourself whether you are truly being loved or merely being rewarded for your usefulness.
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I love how she was schooled.
Are you sl€ep|ng with men because that is what will make him decide to marry you?????
I'm gonna be so blunt with you women, you gonna have to do more than allowing a man to fuvk you if you want him to take the relationship to another level.
No man has ever decided to marry a woman just because he is facing her, you need to do more than giving him your body.
You have to elevate the level of the woman you apart from fvck, letting him know, you are good at something else not just fvvk.
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CHemical ❤️🌹 retweeted
Men, if you have a wife who gives you these things, 10/10
Go to church tomorrow and give a testimony.
1. Makes sumptuous meals.
2. Gives you so much respect.
3. Understands your financial situation and cooperates.
4. Doesn't lose her temper during heated arguments.
5. Doesn't deny you sex even after disagreements or arguments.
6. Surprises you with gifts on your birthday.
7. Doesn't go through your phone.
8. Asks you what style you want to explore.
9. Treats your parents like they are hers.
10. Prays and fasts for you.
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CHemical ❤️🌹 retweeted
Each time I read exchanges between healthcare professionals on X, I can’t help feeling saddened by how easily professional disagreements degenerate into unnecessary contests of superiority.
Lately, I’ve come across posts dismissing bioequivalence and insisting on the use of innovator brands. What bothers me is not that professionals have different opinions or preferences, but how quickly these discussions descend into classism, condescension, and a contest over who knows more or occupies a higher pedestal.
Two truths can coexist. Someone may reasonably prefer a brand they have used and trusted over the years. However, personal experience can also introduce bias, potentially leading to the hasty generalisation that bioequivalence is a myth.
In Canada, for instance, prescriptions for branded medications can be sent to pharmacies with an indication that therapeutic substitution is permitted. If brand preference and therapeutic substitution can coexist within a healthcare system, why must Nigeria’s own conversation be so different?
Rather than channel this energy into advocating for stronger quality control, effective pharmacovigilance, and stricter regulation of medicines circulating in Nigeria, some healthcare professionals seem more invested in tearing one another down.
We can acknowledge legitimate concerns about medicine quality without dismissing established scientific principles. We can prefer certain brands based on experience without generalising that all generic medicines are inferior.
The real issue should be ensuring that every medicine circulating in Nigeria meets the required standards of quality, safety, and efficacy, not proving who can afford the most expensive brand or who has the intellectual upper hand.
Our healthcare system needs collective advocacy, evidence-based discussions, and professional solidarity, not superiority contests. We have bigger problems to solve.
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CHemical ❤️🌹 retweeted
Any small thing, these two will start dragging themselves on X.
Una no dey tire?
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CHemical ❤️🌹 retweeted
Men genuinely enjoy providing. It’s the entitlement that ruins everything.
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CHemical ❤️🌹 retweeted
Nigerian men who ghost women immediately after intimacy are literally the definition of cowards.
Many of u suffer from lack of upbringing and home training.
You will see a grown man with beards pretending to be sweet, making false promises & acting mature just to get into a woman pants, only to disappear the next day.
That is pure f00lishness & total trash behavior. If u know u only wanted a casual encounter, state it clearly from day one instead of acting like a deception master.
Running away after getting what u want proves u have no character, no integrity.
Take offense. I don't care.
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