I think intimacy is more than just sex noh? It's having hearts to hearts-deep conversations, thoughts, feelings, goals, and dreams, sharing childhood memories and hopes for the future. It's direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching. It's exchanging energy.
Maturity is when you want to see yourself someday committed to someone who has mature plans for the future with you, not just for sex, not a fling, but a serious one. You don't want to see yourself wasting all those years with someone who was just good in the beginning.
Adulting advice??? Use your weekend to go out, treat yourself and enjoy being alone. Learn how to make yourself enough for you without needing someone by your side. Make yourself your one and only partner that no matter what will always be there for you.
Oh to have someone who notices your silence, someone who knows that it means you're hurt & mad. Someone who ensures that their choice of words is respectful & sensitive enough.They often play the "kilala kita" card because they're always paying attention to every action you take.
Ikaw din ba yung tipo ng taong nag- eenjoy kapag alone? I mean, if you like to walk home alone after work, you like to stay home alone friday nights, workout alone, you just like quiet and time to yourself. Wala lang, you like being alone but you hate being lonely.
Date someone who wants to be successful as much as you do. Imagine buying your first house together, driving a dream car together. Working on your career and future goals. Date someone who you can pray with and hustle with. Life goals over relationship goals, always.
Actually, sleeping with someone is so nice like waking up in the middle of the night and snuggling closer or lazily giving them a kiss or just feeling their arms around you squeeze slightly even tho they're in a deep sleep or holding while you both are asleep.
Take your time getting to know people. Don’t be so excited to connect. People have so much hidden intentions, hidden toxicity, hidden personality traits! They will do everything to impress you before showing themselves. Say NO sometimes. Protect your mental health.
Adulting advice? Use your long weekend to go out and treat yourself. Learn how to make yourself enough for you without needing someone by your side. Make yourself your one & only partner that no matter what will always be there for you. Live your life and take a lot of pictures.
I want nonsexual forms of intimacy so much. Like hugging, cuddles, forehead kisses, going on dates, sharing personal details, deep talks, talking about the future and what we want in life, communicating, and respecting personal boundaries. ✨