I see you. The one who can’t seem to find the courage to lift your head again after colliding with yet another false start.
The one sitting in your car outside the party, while your heart and mind go twelve rounds in the ring of insecurity.
The one brimming with frustration because your Instagram feed is full of quotes and memes telling you to “let go,” but that feels impossible. You’ve got babies to feed, bills to pay, and a relationship hanging by a thread—letting go feels like a death sentence.
I see you, the one who is so tired of being called strong, of being labeled resilient, as though it’s some badge of honor when all it feels like is another way to carry the weight of the world.
I wish I could take your pain away. I can’t... but I can remind you that the strength everyone sees in you isn’t about never breaking—it’s about how you keep showing up, even when you feel shattered inside.
I can remind you you’re not alone.
I can remind you one step, one breathe, one moment at a time—don’t live out there or back there, be present with what is.
And when you’re ready, even if it’s just for a second, lift your head and see that Love is still here.
That even in the middle of winter, when the world feels barren and your spirit feels cold, there is within you an invincible summer waiting to emerge.
Let it remind you that this moment, however heavy, is not the end—it’s part of your becoming.
(Inspired by: In the middle of winter, I at last discovered that there was in me an invincible summer. – Albert Camus)