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So it doesn’t take a genius to work out what’s been happening with H&M. Summarised timeline: - They meet with the King and Queen, earlier this year - They announce a return to the UK - They return - The King states publicly that they are private citizens - Then comes the drama of “we need royal level security” - Then this scandal happens - MM releases a knee-jerk reaction statement, which doesn’t make any sense, opens up more questions and doesn’t exonerate her from gaslighting us for 8 years all the while advocating “I will use my voice” blah blah blah - As expected, MM (and PH) get absolutely vilified, everywhere If it’s not clear to anyone - that they returned to the UK because they knew the scandal was coming and they thought that they would be afforded the protection and sympathy of the British monarchy and people - then, I’m sorry, but you must be blind. It’s been a very clear path of “get back in”, manipulation and victim mentality, which is what they are all about. They trashed the British royal family in every way. The final weeks of Prince Philip’s life were tainted by their tea spilling, the final months of the late Queen’s life were spent mopping up their dirty accusations and allegations. Since then, it’s just drama drama drama, accusations, allegations, chaos creating, victim mentality and entitlement. Yes, I am aware a Prince also faced similar allegations and people are saying his daughters also said nothing. And I want to state, at this point, as far as I am concerned all three women should not be vilified over something their father’s have allegedly done. The difference between the York daughters and MM is that the York daughters said NOTHING, ever, at any time, about anyone. They understood their position, if they had an issue (as I’m sure happens in all families), they dealt with it privately. I am not saying MM deserves to be vilified BUT what she is reaping is a consequence to her earlier actions. You can’t publicly bash and trash your husband’s family, wreak havoc and attempt to destroy their reputations and a British institution and then expect that same family (and the people they reign over) to be welcoming. People don’t forget. The Queen was loved and respected - a truly dedicated monarch. Prince Philip gave us endless entertainment with his humour. Seventy years + 214 days, that’s how long she reigned for. People Don’t Forget That’s the harsh truth and one that H&M will have to face.
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I’m seeing this a lot, on X - that Meghan is receiving the worst treatment possible for her father’s alleged behaviour, whilst Beatrice and Eugene walk around unscathed. Well, this is why 👇🏻
The difference between the three women (well, two and one) is that B&E were not out there trashing the royal family (or any family) and making money off of that. B&E have stayed quiet - they have not written a book, they have never given an interview or done a TV subscription series. B&E have remained out of the public domain in every way possible. Any photos you see of them in the press, they are either at a family event or it’s because a pap has snapped them going about their daily lives. Meghan has not behaved that way and she has dragged Harry in to her dysfunctional little world of narcissism and lies. Her world of tipping off the press about her movements, her world of needing privacy but remaining oh so public with her public IG account. Making a spectacle of herself “twerking” (not the behaviour of a duchess) and all sorts. I truly believe that Harry should have married differently. I also believe that whilst he may have felt like a ‘spare’, the right woman would have helped him find his own niche in life and minimised those feelings but instead he picked the worst possible path, with her. She has done nothing except amplified his feelings of inadequacy. I read it somewhere else on here: Harry needed a Catherine (wholesome and grounded) Meghan wanted a William (a future King).
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Women are sharing their live locations with friends, checking the backseats of their cars before getting in, keeping their drinks covered, and texting someone when they get home safely. They memorize escape routes, stay alert in parking lots, and pretend to be on the phone when a man makes them uncomfortable. All of this just to feel safe doing ordinary things. Meanwhile, some men are recording hour-long podcasts complaining that women don't smile at them, don't give them attention, and aren't nice enough. Imagine being more offended by a woman's lack of a smile than concerned about why she feels the need to take so many precautions just to protect herself. Some women are fighting to feel safe in public. Some men are fighting to feel entitled to their attention. And somehow, we're still debating which problem deserves more sympathy. 🤦‍♀️
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What the shame was actually made of For a long time I thought the shame was the price of having been fooled. I've come to see it differently. This is what the shame was actually made of, and what I hear from others who carried it. 1) It was misdirected. 'How did I not see this?' is the wrong question. The right one is: how did someone target me so precisely that I couldn't see it while it was happening? 2) It was built on my strengths. Loyalty. The capacity to see good in people. The willingness to work hard and give the benefit of the doubt. Those were what got exploited. They were never the flaw. 3) It kept me quiet. Shame makes you hide. I didn't tell the people who would have seen the pattern, because I was afraid of what it said about me. The silence protected the dynamic, not me. 4) It was handed to me. Every 'you're too sensitive,' every 'you made me do this,' was a small transfer of responsibility. By the end I was carrying blame that had never been mine. 5) It got louder after I left. With the daily chaos gone, there was finally room to feel it. That timing confused me. It wasn't a sign I'd made a mistake. It was a sign the fog had cleared enough to feel anything. 6) It eased when I stopped asking what it said about me. The question itself was the trap. What happened said something about a dynamic, and about the person who ran it. Not about my worth. 7) It turned into something useful. Once I stopped hiding, the shame became a reason to speak. If I'd been targeted that precisely, others had too, and most of them were still carrying the same misplaced weight. You weren't foolish. You were read. Those are different things, and knowing the difference is where the shame starts to lift.
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Not to be dramatic or anything but I think this is why we are being encouraged to stockpile food, water and essential items. I’m no conspiracy theorist but I reckons this is heading our way.
🚨 BREAKING: Limoges Town Hall (built 1876) set ablaze by masked protesters who forced entry and torched it. A 150-year-old symbol of French history destroyed. Open borders invite those who HATE you, HATE your history and want to destroy everything your ancestors built. This is the result of mass immigration from third world countries.
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I don't known who needs to hear this, but there is and has never been any "war of the Brothers" between William and Harry. "War" takes at least two sides, actively fighting and battling each other. The Wales have NEVER engaged in any type of back and forth with H&M. NEVER🔥 They have never responded, defended themselves nor addressed any of the slanderous allegations H&M have attacked them with. War needs at least two fractions fighting each other. When one side fights and screams on its own, it is called suffering from mental illness, not being at war with anyone🤷🏽‍♀️ For the past 6 years, W&C have simply kept calm and carried on, and whether H&M are living in the US or in the UK, nothing has changed Some People and the press keep acting as if the Wales need to prove anything to H&M or counter anything to their PR stunts but truly, WHICH part of the Wales' lives and their future is threatened by H&M moving to the UK?🤔 • Did W&C stop being "the Prince and Princess of Wales" and "the Future King and Queen" because H&M are back? No, there is no competition for the throne. • Did William stop being the Heir set to inherit it all? Does he now have to share or divide the £23 million he receives yearly from his Duchy, with H&M? No he is still who he is and his bank account is still what it is. •Did the Wales lose their governemnt security? Did they lose any of their homes or their privileges? No they still have everything they had. •Which of their projects stopped being successful since H&M moved to the UK? What sponsor did they lose? None, they actually gained🔥 William actually signed a new partnership with NVIDIA this month for Earthshot and met with the CEO, Jensen Huang at Windsor. Meanwhile on his Homeward, following the pilot's success with IKEA, major employers like Specsavers, B&Q, and Howdens have now committed to joining the network☺️ William further announced a new pilot project to support suicide prevention in sports this month with "On your side", and Norwich FC announced that they will partner with William's new initiative for their team. ALL These new partnerships just happened between mid September and the beginning of october 2026🔥 What did William lose? • Are the Wales unable to move around the UK freely since H&M moved back? Absolutely not, within this month alone, they were in London, with Catherine calmly taking the tube with Charlotte, William playing Backyard cricket on the Mall in front of BP; They were in Wales, in Scotland and in Ireland continuing to highlight their community work and projects❤️ So truly, my dears, WHAT has H&M PR stunt to Nottingham on thursday or their living in the UK changed for W&C? NOT a single thing and that is exactly what irks the press and haters so much🔥 To William and Catherine, H&M's presence equal their absence: SUM ZERO. They add nor remove from W&C and this is the confidence with which the Wales have embraced their married lives and their Royal duties. They are not in competition with anyone. They are secured in themselves and in their position. No matter the PR stunts from the private citizens or the noise the press makes with their useless articles, There is NO COMPETITION for the throne in the Monarchy. There is no shared Power nor shared privileges in the Monarchy. There is no equality in the monarchy, there is a Hierarchy🔥 The Firstborn is the winner who takes all: all the money, all the inheritance, all the power, all the security, the main privileges and make all the decisions for everyone else in the family. The rest of Royals and their spouse can support, play nice and get a piece of the cake with a great posh life of privileges for the rest of their lives; OR they can refuse to support like H&M did, leave and that is the end of them. They are out on their own. This is the blunt picture in the Monarchy👌🏽 Well and so, William and Catherine are calmly going about their lives because if you were in their shoes, and had your future secured and guaranteed too at all levels, you would be calm too, what would they gain in engaging in a war with H&M? Nothing🤷🏽‍♀️ It is H&M, the press, the antimonarchists, BP courtiers and the haters around the world who are all worried about William and Catherine and their distinctive reign to come. Neither William nor Catherine are interested in anything H&M have. It is H&M who have been moaning publicly about not having the same privileges the Wales have, it is them who have been comparing themselves with the Wales, comparing their children with Wales children, and crying about the security that the Wales have and they do not have. This is not a "war of brothers", this is the envious side attacking the ones who have what they want ☕️ #PrinceandPrincessofWales
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Socialism is all about taking £500 from a hard working tax payer to give to 5 lazy workshy benefit claiming tossers. You lose 1 vote but you gain 5 - that’s why @UKLabour refuse to reduce it - they will harm their voter base. If you work hard and pay tax - DO NOT vote Labour.
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A man can check a woman’s phone, question her whereabouts, interrogate her male friends and demand proof of loyalty. But the moment she asks him to account for his own behaviour, she’s insecure, controlling and doesn’t trust him. So trust is compulsory for women, but accountability is oppression for men? Interesting.
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I love the moment you finally realise you don’t have to put up with a single thing you don’t like. You don’t have to keep accepting disrespect just because you love someone. You don’t have to stay somewhere that makes you feel small just because you’re afraid to start over. You don’t have to keep explaining your boundaries to people who already know they’re crossing them. There is something incredibly powerful about realising you are allowed to say “this isn’t good enough for me anymore” and actually walk away. You are allowed to choose what you tolerate, who gets access to you and what kind of life you want to live. You don’t owe anyone your suffering just because you once loved them.
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The Psychology of People Who Cut Everyone Off :
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If you’ve sent me a DM and I have not replied, it’s because I’ve only just worked out how to use the DM thingy on here. So, apologies if I haven’t replied! What can I say? I’m Gen-X and I don’t do technical 🤦🏻‍♀️
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A man acting JEALOUS while secretly CHEATING has to be some kind of mental ILLNESS.
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“Choose better” is funny when someone is actively lying to you. I dated a man for two years before finding out he was married. And the person who told me was the “best friend” he swore he’d never slept with. So please explain how I was supposed to “choose better” with information I was never given. Y’all put so much responsibility on women to detect deception, when the responsibility should be on people to stop deceiving others.
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This is why he will make a great King. He deals with this himself, without whining to the people, doing TV interviews, writing a book and so on.
Their fans were mocking Prince William when this video first popped up. He was literally defending his kids from being followed closely by a paparazzo during a bike ride, and you all thought it was funny.
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For a long time, I believed I had to battle the narcissist to be heard. I thought “if only they understand” and I thought standing my ground meant defending or explaining myself. I was wrong. The real power was choosing peace through silence. Not responding and not rising to their manipulation. You cannot change someone who is committed to misunderstanding you, whatever you say or do. Smiling in the morning, breathing without tension and living as if their drama doesn’t exist. Because nothing crushes a narcissist more than seeing you rise above their chaos. They can't stand your happiness. They can't stand your silence. And once you learn to live unbothered, you realise you never needed to fight. You just needed to walk away.
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HELLO X - this is my first official “verified” post. I found myself on X looking at something that was sent to me by a friend and I set up a profile to watch a video - although I know now I didn’t have to do that - but here I am! I don’t do FB or any other social media platforms. I’ve had a really exasperating few years and I took myself off FB to allow myself healing time and privacy. Not everyone is your friend and I found FB was just surveillance. I had almost 200 ‘friends’ but only a fraction of those people ever liked or commented on my posts. Strangely, the other percentage suddenly noticed when I was gone and asked others “has she blocked me?”. No, she hasn’t, she’s just realised that not everyone needs access to her. So, here I am, an X’er, in more ways than just on the platform. I am a proud Gen-X, born in the 70s, raised in the 80s, raved in the 90s (and still raving, well, sometimes, my mind thinks I’m 21 but my body challenges that theory and most nights I’m in bed by 10.30pm). Growing up, I saw the world through a different lens. It was a nicer place and that’s all I’m going to say on that, for now, my future posts will be more interesting for sure, as I always have a lot to say! An assertive (expressive) professional woman, in my 50s and I found myself single, so I got a couple of cats. I like good coffee, real talk, debate, authenticity, people watching (big observer of behaviours - heightened after an experience with a covert narc), big believer in healthy boundaries and taking responsibility. I don’t have many followers so if this post found you, thank you for opening / reading and please give me a follow. I’ll follow you straight back! If you’re already following me, thank you, I’m genuinely humbled 🙏
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I will own my mistakes when I'm wrong. But I refuse to apologize for defending myself against disrespect. If you lit the fire, do not stand in the ashes and play the victim.
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A man waiting for you to chase him is called Cinderella. Block that Disney princess.
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A woman's silence isn't always a punishment.Sometimes it's the first day of a life that no longer includes you. Period.
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