HELLO X - this is my first official “verified” post. I found myself on X looking at something that was sent to me by a friend and I set up a profile to watch a video - although I know now I didn’t have to do that - but here I am!
I don’t do FB or any other social media platforms. I’ve had a really exasperating few years and I took myself off FB to allow myself healing time and privacy. Not everyone is your friend and I found FB was just surveillance.
I had almost 200 ‘friends’ but only a fraction of those people ever liked or commented on my posts. Strangely, the other percentage suddenly noticed when I was gone and asked others “has she blocked me?”. No, she hasn’t, she’s just realised that not everyone needs access to her.
So, here I am, an X’er, in more ways than just on the platform. I am a proud Gen-X, born in the 70s, raised in the 80s, raved in the 90s (and still raving, well, sometimes, my mind thinks I’m 21 but my body challenges that theory and most nights I’m in bed by 10.30pm).
Growing up, I saw the world through a different lens. It was a nicer place and that’s all I’m going to say on that, for now, my future posts will be more interesting for sure, as I always have a lot to say!
An assertive (expressive) professional woman, in my 50s and I found myself single, so I got a couple of cats. I like good coffee, real talk, debate, authenticity, people watching (big observer of behaviours - heightened after an experience with a covert narc), big believer in healthy boundaries and taking responsibility.
I don’t have many followers so if this post found you, thank you for opening / reading and please give me a follow. I’ll follow you straight back!
If you’re already following me, thank you, I’m genuinely humbled 🙏