This is why I'm not obsessed with money. It can buy things you think will make you happy. Status, one nighters, pricy wardrobe, exotic cars, etc. But in the end you'd trade it all for a happy ending.
A man can spend ten years climbing the ladder, buy a penthouse with a city view, wear a solid gold watch, and still feel like he is starving to death at midnight.
In Japan, young men are waking up to a brutal truth about money and loneliness.
You work eighty hours a week to prove your worth. You buy the luxury coat, the framed art on the wall, and a commercial-grade stainless steel refrigerator the size of a bedroom closet. On social media, everybody envies your life.
Then one Tuesday night at 11 PM, you come home to a dark apartment and pull open the heavy door of that giant refrigerator.
The white LED light blinds you, and there is nothing inside. No leftovers wrapped in foil. No half-eaten fruit. Nobody waiting in the kitchen to ask if you ate dinner yet.
When we are insecure, we pile up expensive things like armor because we are terrified that nobody would love us if we had nothing. Even the bandages we used to hide our bruises are gone.
Real wealth is not an oil painting in a silent mansion. Real wealth is trading a wad of cash for a five-dollar bouquet of wildflowers, walking up the concrete stairs of a cramped middle-class apartment, and opening the door to a room where someone is happy you came home.