Male sexual depravity and female hypergamy were kept secret from the other gender for all of human history for a reason. Modernity, in it's quest for infinite knowledge, has exposed these truths to young naive souls who were not designed for them and subsequently destroyed the modern dating market via disgust and resentment. Unfortunately, the cat is unlikely to go back in the bag. Fortunately, we are very adaptable and will reconcile eventually.
I submit that young women were not meant to understand male sexuality as if they did, a great many would be so disgusted by its realities, they would cease engaging in sex with men. Coming to terms with the realities of male sexuality is part of the female sexual maturation process.
However, in modernity, where our sex and relationship structures of polite mirage have largely crumbled, laying bare harsher realities, young women must square these more basal systems of male sexuality with normal but different human functioning than their own or risk building mental structures that create disdain for men themselves.