At some point you have to stop explaining and just roll with the locals.
stop studying the language, go speak it. This young blue belt has a good intuitive feel for Jiu Jitsu. He can read, respond, surprise me, and stay in the exchange long enough to reach a flow state.
I’m attacking, catching and releasing, staying ahead without forcing where the roll goes. The possibilities are real. He can catch me, and I can feel how close he is.
This is how I think about teaching.
Stop constantly explaining Jiu Jitsu or putting your interpretation between the student and the experience. Roll with them. Give them contact with the givens and let them learn to read the primary text for themselves. I don’t tell him what to see. I keep the exchange alive long enough that he can see it for himself.
When both people can keep reading, rolling teaches on its own.
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More info on the givens in my guide