I’d bring the baby out of spite because why tf invite people with kids to a kid free wedding? They better not expect a gift if the parents got to pay for a babysitter too. If you have a child free wedding just don’t invite people with kids in the first place
Not to start A Discourse but I was invited to a child-free wedding on the West Coast in January. It will be 3 wks after I have my baby. Does "child-free wedding" also include very young newborns? Curious about thoughts. Newborns (to my mind) are basically nonexistent.