On August 13, 2026 at 2:59pm, my little sister Chizoma passed away at the age of 32 after a 2.5 year battle with leukemia. We were firmly planted in our identities of being the youngest boy and youngest girl of the four of us, so I cannot describe the feeling of how lost I feel without her, my only younger sibling.
Words cannot describe how much of a light Chizo was in every aspect of people's lives. If I had to describe her in one word, it would be generous. Generous with her love. Generous with her happiness. Generous with taking care of others, even sometimes at her own detriment. The amount of love and care she showed her friends, family, and loved ones was ever-present throughout her entire life, even throughout her battle with cancer. Through this leukemia journey, I learned that she had an O- blood type, the universal giver, which I would joke with her is the most fitting blood type for her personality. In the final weeks before she passed, as I saw in pain and hurting, I was crying while holding her hand and she started caressing my hand, comforting me. I smiled while crying and asked, "Why are you comforting me? I'm the one that's supposed to be comforting you." The day before her last, she commented to our mother on her weight loss and was like, "We need to take you out shopping and get you a new wardrobe, these clothes are too baggy on you." To show this love and care to others even in her final moments speaks to how compassionate of a person she was.
I never thought I'd experience a day without the ability to hear her loud laugh. No longer will I be able to feel annoyed by her calling me "my bank account." Even now, I'm yearning to hear her voice and call me that one more time while hugging me, returning back to the old times.
There is so much more to say than I can fit in a post. The world lost truly one of the brightest and kindest human beings, and I am honored to forever be your big brother #2 (and bank account). Rest in peace Chizo, I love and miss you so much already and I cannot wait until I see you again.