relatedly it irks me when ppl think the way we're constantly denied our womanhood, particularly when one of us does/says something bad, is a product of some "man bad, woman good" politics when it's actually "transfem bad, cisfem good"
"trans women were socialized as males and therefore-" can y'all stfu most trans people spent our lives wondering why we aren't like other boys/girls and the "socialization" y'all preach about only made us feel even more alienated