In regards to all this back and forth regarding my message to
@howertonjosh and I’m going to leave this here for now. I’ve said plenty, and at some point continuing to argue about it risks becoming the very thing I’m concerned about.
I reached out and spoke up because so many people I love and respect care deeply about Josh, and I care alongside them. More than anything, I want to see our teachers raise God’s name in glory and help people move toward Jesus.
And I think I’ve finally gotten clearer about what has bothered me so much. It isn’t really about Josh as a person. It’s about a strategy and a style of Christian communication that I believe can create real collateral damage. When outrage, political division, fear of “those people,” or dunking on the other side becomes a reliable way to grow an audience, I think Christians should be willing to ask what that growth is costing.
There are people listening who are curious about Jesus but don’t share the politics, the culture, or the assumptions. There are Christians who love Jesus but feel increasingly alienated by the idea that following Him requires belonging to a particular political or cultural tribe. I don’t want us to win engagement while losing people along the way.
And I’m not above that temptation myself. Attention is intoxicating. Being right is intoxicating. Applause from your own side is intoxicating. I felt it last night and I’m sure Josh feels it daily. It can be a drug you become addicted to whether anyone admits to it or not. I need Christian brothers and sisters willing to tell me when I’m getting too enamored with any of it, and I hope I have the humility to listen.
That’s the spirit in which I reached out. Not to declare Josh a bad person or myself a better Christian. Not to demand that he share my politics. Just a Christian brother throwing a fastball high and inside to another and saying: I think this is getting too divisive. I think there’s collateral damage here. And I think some of the voices telling you that deserve to be heard.
I genuinely want good things for Josh, his family, his church, and the people they’re trying to reach. And I’ll keep examining my own heart in all of this too.
Jesus is bigger than this disagreement. That feels like a good place for me to leave it.
Most importantly: I’m still hearing from so many of you, and I won’t stop listening. If there’s more that pushes me to come back further, I’ll be honest there and do it.