Post-partum depression is often just post-nut clarity for women who realize they've had a kid with a man they don't respect, and are now trapped. Rather than blaming herself, of course, she just blames the baby...
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That's a bit, certainly. A larger component is The Key: Humans are optimized to live in hamlets of 50-100 people, where child-rearing duties are frequently shared across multiple households. Modern society atomized extended and then nuclear families, increasing the child-rearing burden on each individual mother in a distributed fashion, because modern society is ironically both hyper-dense and also hyper-isolating. The modern motherhood model is "pioneer woman" with no community-shared burden, due to lack of extended community/clan childcare system that was present 100+ years ago [in successful communities]. Fewer grandparents, fewer aunties, fewer cousins in our atomized society implies more impersonal private or gov day care / school care, or burden directly on the mother and mother alone. Motherhood is more difficult with reduced opportunities for "distributed" child support.

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If I recall correctly in hunter gatherer societies a baby is passed around to 20 ish unique people a day, and after breastfeeding is done the mom and dad only do like, 30% of the caretaking. When breastfeeding it’s like, 70%. The teenagers and elderly do most of the caretaking
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Data point,
“It takes a village to raise a child.” We killed the village. No more leaving the kid at the neighbour’s house. We killed the large family. No more grandparents, aunts, and uncles around to help raise the kids. We killed the stay at home parent. Raising kids became a paid service. One by one, we removed every support system that made raising children easier. Then we wondered why people stopped wanting children. We didn’t just kill the village. We killed the desire to raise a child.
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Great point
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Not a lot grandparents around when the average life span was 40 years.
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One of the history's most misunderstood statistics. If you remove childhood deaths, the average life span is far more normal. That's just how averaging math works.
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Humans are also optimized to adapt to new environment.
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