most men think like this, they’re made to follow orders. so much so, women find it so attractive when a man can intentionally and thoroughly plan things. its where that phrase “turn off my brain” comes from, but people online made it weird like women wanna be infantilized
men saying, “all you had to do was ask & i would’ve done it” is basically admitting you were waiting to be led. 😩 baby, that’s not leadership that’s following instructions. 😭😭